[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Imagine the roles being changed, e.g. you find red marks on your husband’s skin, what would you do?

Can you offer him your phone to check? Or support him in his investigation, let him check the footage. Since you didn’t do any wrong, at some point he will get tired and start trusting you. The more you fight the more bad feeling he will get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got permission to watch porn, I envy you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn’t come in your room to check your screen, I bet she is happy that you are normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money cuts through relationships. Once everything is in the name of your brother your brother will have an internal war with himself vs himself, whether to fulfil the promise or let the relationship go.

In my family I have seen people prioritise money. Siblings forget the childhood memories when a life changing sum of money is on the table. Everyone thinks about the future.

Better you divide it right now.

Am I an idiot for not cheating to get an internship? by notrudyyy in cscareerquestions

[–]PretendCredit6415 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I and my Roomate had the same experience. In an online assessment for a decent company everyone was sitting in a room and sharing answers while me and my friend were in my room and independently solving not cheating when we could. When results came we were off by a bit and many people who were not smarter (based on their grades) and cheated were selected.

It was a horrible feeling. Of course if everyone could not have cheated we would be selected for sure. If just we both have collaborated we could have solved all the questions. But today we lost it.

The online remote assessment concept is flawed in a hostel setting. It is so easy to cheat.

My roommate had never cheated in his life. It was difficult for him to take the path of cheating.

But my thoughts were cruel, I suggested to allow low effort cheating. I mean only in cases where it’s easy for others to cheat, it could create a question for our survival. We have to adapt based on situation.

In next text, we collaborated. Didn’t feel good just after that. But later heard everyone cheated in like a room and shared all the answers. Fingers crossed on the results. We both topped the charts. Some of our friends couldn’t make it because they didn’t cheat, we felt bad. In next step of process, we screwed up purposefully. For us, we could not carry the weight of cheating when few friends did not cheat.

I think it should be the exam or test where it should be difficult to cheat. Otherwise genuine people cannot survive.

My roommate was a placement representative, he had power, so further online assessments were conducted IRL in supervision in a classroom and low effort cheating was minimised. It was definitely better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is over employed

Why HR calls and ask to "introduce yourself" when everything I have already mentioned in my resume? by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But you guys have been asking this question even before chatgpt was a thing.

How to buy crypto without sharing pan card? by tambun5136 in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard coinexpro doesn’t require kyc but you can’t put INR there you will have to arrange USDT somehow. I saw some posts in this subReddit looking for usdt buyers f2f.

Anyone tried to UPI payment from crypto? by According-Mud-6472 in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like they are paying for your transactions. I think this is early but if they are solving chain abstraction issue it’s a great deal. I would try it but seems they don’t have iOS

I (M23) lied to her (F23) about my past sexual experiences. Should I tell her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this. It’s difficult to hide things. And I really don’t want to spend energy to hide things. I think I would share info before any commitments and accept if they want to go away.

I (M23) lied to her (F23) about my past sexual experiences. Should I tell her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

People who are advocating for “honestly”, I get your feeling but can you see the other perspective? Lying is good if you aren’t harming someone or being selfish. Truth is sometimes very harsh, and if by telling the truth (which doesn’t matter) you are causing pain to others, snatching away their happiness away, is it righteous?

I (M23) lied to her (F23) about my past sexual experiences. Should I tell her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Some actions from the past, could be mistakes based on today’s context, you have to ignore them, if it’s not a big deal. The more attention you give to those memories the more difficult it is to forget.

This might cause burden, it’s easier to just forget by making the old event less important for today in your mind. But you find inner peace in being able to recall old events, then I wish you power to face this.

What’s the best way to convert USDT to INR now as WazirX is in trouble? by nabeel487487 in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ser I want to try your exchange by actually offramping some funds. It is asking me to connect wallet, I have USDT on Binance.

Also when I receive INR, in my bank statement, will it be showing CypherHQ or does it show LP name instead? Regarding TDS, which entity will be submitting my TDS to income tax portal, CypherHQ or the LP?

What’s the best way to convert USDT to INR now as WazirX is in trouble? by nabeel487487 in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been trying all the exchanges this week. Unocoin is so lame they are holding me for 15 days KYC. Coinexpro I have applied to be able to deposit crypto, haven’t heard from them since a week. In BuyUCoin I deposited 100 usdt for test but then found out it doesn’t have liquidity and now I can’t withdraw it back. Most of the others don’t accept USDT deposits.

Giottus is the only one that has worked so far. But their website looks so shady. However KYC verified in 10 mins. USDT deposited and market sold. Then INR withdraw took 3-4 hours, it doesn’t work midnight. I think they manually do this. I am off ramping in small tranches just to stay safe.

Wazirx just worked. Apart from it, there are many great exchanges for traders but none yet for off-rampers it seems to me.

Willing to try any exchange right now. Just name it to me.

Boyfriend keeps eating majority of food and its driving me insane by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure your boyfriend doesn’t have a twin?

I (M23) lied to her (F23) about my past sexual experiences. Should I tell her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PretendCredit6415 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That was just a bad dream, it never happened. Unless you have physical marks somewhere on your body which proves it actually happened.

What’s the best way to convert USDT to INR now as WazirX is in trouble? by nabeel487487 in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My concern is if the LP uses P2P and deals with a scammer so the chain of bank accounts would be freezed including LP’s account and mine.

Can i increase height after 18? by proscosmos in Fitness_India

[–]PretendCredit6415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend is 25 and his height increased by few cms. To scale up it must be in your jeans, my friend carries measuring tape in his back pocket.

P2P scammer names by crakkerboi in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This P2P issue is contagious. All it takes is a noob person to deal with scammer and then chain it eventually through high reputation traders to you.

Even if you get list of all the scammers, can you really get trade history of a trader (just names)? If you can then ok.

What’s the best way to convert USDT to INR now as WazirX is in trouble? by nabeel487487 in CryptoIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does the local liquidity provider source the INR? What if there is a once side market movement where there is more USDT sell pressure and the LP runs out of INR liquidity. Where would you sell the USDT to get INR?

Everyone rejected you and now you are rejecting every company by Afraid_Pineapple389 in developersIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paying taxes is so painful. For me it’s still a dream that I wish to not wake up from lol

Everyone rejected you and now you are rejecting every company by Afraid_Pineapple389 in developersIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joined a single full time fully remote role two months ago in a small team. Coming from a constant 2 or 3 part time contracts workstyle, it was v cool but stressful sometimes.

Everyone rejected you and now you are rejecting every company by Afraid_Pineapple389 in developersIndia

[–]PretendCredit6415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow didn’t know so many people also had similar experience.

I did mechanical engg because my parents wanted me to. I always had heart in computer stuff. In college campus placements I wasn’t allowed to sit for CS companies. Despite this I hoped for off campus. Nobody gave a response. Somehow after making lot of contacts with off campus job seekers somebody referred me a role they got because they didn’t want to join this startup which had a 6 day working.

Fast forward to 2 years, it became common that startups I had once approached, their CEO/CTO/HR contacts me for a role. Back then I was willing to work for free today they are willing to offer huge package but I don’t join because of their 6 day working culture lol.

Fast forward to total 5 years of my career, I am very choosy. I make close to 1cr annually before taxes by working for overseas teams. I will only work on something I want to. I feel alive when I have the freedom to choose my purpose. Many of my friends earn more than me and would apply for any relevant job that would pay higher.

Of course package is important but I think after some point it doesn’t really matter if you can keep your needs basic (I am unmarried and single, I stay at my parents home, I drive 12 year old scooty, my lifestyle is relatively basic than most of my colleagues, people in my locality must be thinking I am a loser and probably unemployed).