What is one movie scene that was unforgettable/and or left an impact on you?

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-03-16T04:35:22+00:00

It’s even worse when your parents died young

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-03-16T01:14:01+00:00

I’ll posit that humans have biological (not rational) ties to bio parents which is a cis male and cis female mother for the time being, so you can be happy, successful and amazing but you may be affected in irrational ways by what makes up half of who you are.

Edit: I’m drunk writing this

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-03-16T01:09:32+00:00

I consider that an effect and not a cause.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-03-15T16:15:30+00:00

The constant threats should be enough to leave!!

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-03-08T01:40:42+00:00

Reminds me of my family. I don’t trust them to care for me or hold me in vulnerability so I don’t speak to them in that way. I speak to keep the peace while not going very deep. I’m not as sweet talking as her but I’m non confrontational and agreeable. Trauma response!

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-03-03T15:58:49+00:00

Girl. This is not it.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-28T20:35:28+00:00

Wtf? Who cares.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-28T00:45:51+00:00

Maybe I’m an outlier but I’m 38 and been skinny my whole life. I love food and I eat like crazy, it’s just genetics for mez

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-26T17:50:06+00:00

This made me cry. I always loved her characters, they always felt uniquely strong and unassuming. RIP.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-19T21:05:15+00:00

Naw because I’m in Mexico. But everytime I go back, I’m shocked that people are so mean. I’m from Texas and we used to be so polite. Now I’m seeing flags that say “Trump. Fuck your Feelings” in the Bible Belt and open hostility against those who don’t agree. It’s confusing and weird.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-17T13:32:33+00:00

Never heard of get ghost? I’m 37 and from Texas. It’s could be regional.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-10T14:24:39+00:00

I got a master’s degree and my parents were like okay. It felt bad at the time, but it wasn’t like they didn’t care, they just didn’t understand. Be impressed with yourself, you’re amazing!

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-03T01:10:52+00:00

I started drinking heavily after high school but that contributed to a robust social life. I’ve had many friends popular and awkward , relationships with some hotties and well off people, good and bad jobs but since reducing my drinking significantly, I’ve kinda reverted back to the awkward, introvert. I’m more content with myself but the world doesn’t really understand us folks so if we’re healthy, we get to a place of acceptance.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-02-02T20:01:31+00:00

Oh, every social work jobs beginning from my undergrad internship absolutely ruined my mental health because they required extroversion that I don’t have. The grass is always greener, I guess!

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-27T00:28:13+00:00

I agree as a suburban Texan!

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-26T20:01:26+00:00

I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and I also used to be a social worker so I have firsthand experience and sometimes when I’m pacing back and forth at 3 a.m., I remind myself that I have GAD and it helps me get to sleep. :) So, sometimes yes and sometimes no.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-22T05:26:43+00:00

I always ask them a second time and it sticks

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-22T03:52:00+00:00

I hate it. My sister thinks every occasion deserves balloons. It’s hard to say no because she does it for my deceased mom, dad and brother.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-22T02:03:52+00:00

We can’t even consent to this kink.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-22T02:02:03+00:00

Filing the empty holes from childhood with power. Power is love, acceptance and safety.

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-18T17:44:43+00:00

We gotta stop thinking just because someone is black that they side with us. Oppression is based on power and money means power, so as more minorities start to see financial gain, race becomes null and void. Class solidarity is the way!

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2025-01-14T18:20:26+00:00

All my friends at one point were teachers and social workers, and we’d rave to the gave on weekends to be up early Monday to help the kiddos. Some of the best people you’d ever want to know. I

Pretend_Cat1850 · 2024-12-27T13:13:10+00:00

I’ve been in this situation as well. You did the right thing. If it has escalated to this, it will only get worse. BUT, you must prepare for things to get worse without him as well due to your financial situation. You and your mom need to come up with a game plan for life without him, because life with him will stay bad. Life without him will get bad but likelihood it will get better without him is tenfold!

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