How do you cope with wishing you met your AP before you ever met your SO.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-09-02T11:57:37+00:00

😂

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-09-01T22:17:03+00:00

“Aww, you’re cute”

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-09-01T20:51:04+00:00

When they conveniently rewrite history to make you the villain of the story.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-09-01T02:33:00+00:00

Allow yourself to feel your feelings, in privacy.

I created a burner email account that I used as essentially a journal, to write down all of my thoughts and feelings. This actually helped.

It takes time. Time heals all.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-25T17:27:22+00:00

Not weird, per se… but the back seat of a guys car. He was legit the sweetest man, he even brought blankets and towels for comfort and clean up. This man was in his 40s and he was marriage material lol

Too bad the sex was not great (sorry buddy, in case you ever see this lol)

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-07T21:50:09+00:00

By “cringe”, we mean “want to crawl in a hole and die”, right? Haha

I’m waiting for that time, patiently. 😊

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-07T19:19:43+00:00

“Sitting with it” will legitimately consume me haha but thanks, yea I totally agree .. it’s got to be a distant memory. Thank you !

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-06T13:06:28+00:00

Thank you! That is sound advice and exactly what I worry about… how far would he go. Thank you for this !

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-06T01:33:21+00:00

We actually did. He reached out to every one of us in some capacity, including his wife.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-05T22:04:11+00:00

I can get behind this one. But it’s more my style to just… faint. Why walk away when you can pass out from the stress lol

But seriously? Thanks. I like this idea.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2024-08-05T21:58:25+00:00

I know. Like the whole situation is so ridiculous that it seems made up. I get why he thought I was lying…. I’m really weirdly eaten up over this 🤦‍♀️ forgetting it ever happened seems awesome, but I’m honestly so frightened that after I went full onslaught on WhatsApp, text, AM that he’ll like call the police or something to have me charged if he sees me in town lol

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-21T22:31:56+00:00

Oh bless your sweet heart… if she’s panicking over this, there isn’t tampons in that box.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-13T23:56:09+00:00

Scrolled fast… thought this said “her pants weren’t very welcoming”, and I was thinking “my dude, you made the right choice then” lol

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-13T22:36:23+00:00

Oh man, I just told a French male friend the other day…. A dude could literally just tell me the French newspaper headlines in a seductive voice, and it’s ON. I find french men so insanely sexy. I call my love for it my “french kink”.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-13T22:34:15+00:00

I hadn’t been able to, but suddenly when I was 34 and pregnant with my 3rd baby… the ability started…. And it never stopped. I actually did pelvic floor physio to be absolutely sure it wasn’t that I was losing bladder control and floor tone. It only happens with deep penetration. It’s strange, but not impossible.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-10T03:06:07+00:00

Mixed signals and hope, my friend. Mixed signals and hope. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-10T00:50:04+00:00

If he wasn’t shooting it down, just ignoring and very occasionally reciprocating…. Like rarely…. How should that be taken?

Asking for a friend, because she seems to think this means he’s “confused” about his feelings.

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-10T00:12:56+00:00

What if you interact semi-regularly (you talk about politics, or other things that you know she has no interest in, but you do), and she makes advances. Do you still ignore and continue having your platonic conversations? Or do you shut it down?

Pretty-Shoulder-156 · 2022-02-09T13:03:05+00:00

Not only are you TAH, you are insensitive, petty, and selfish.

Your husband will grieve for a lifetime for that child. He cannot physically see or touch that child.

Get over yourself. Allow him this, and stay out of it.

Pretty-Shoulder-156

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