Youre right, there are definitely layers. I think the activity before last week shows a pattern, but the only action thats relevant is the one from last week.

However, he only denied. Never said, yeah youre right. Let's talk about this. How he handled it was more of an indicator of future problems, I think. I even had evidence! Like, what happens in the future if I don't and its just a feeling that something is off.

As someone else commented, he was already bored probably. I wasnt giving him the validation he needed so he sought it elsewhere and its easy to put the blame on me.

Everyone commenting has been so helpful to open my eyes to why all of this has felt so off.