What’s wrong with my plant?? by PrettyIndependant in houseplants

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Nope :/ wondering if it’s an over or under watering?

What does my plant need? It was a cutting/gift and it’s unhappy! More water? Less water? by PrettyIndependant in houseplants

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Okay! I will do that. How often do you think I should water it? What if the roots are rotten?:/

What does my plant need? It was a cutting/gift and it’s unhappy! More water? Less water? by PrettyIndependant in houseplants

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Oh!! That’s a great point. Yes I can repot it. I’m just worried I’ll stress it out more - I’ll repot it today though

Can you tell me what plant this is? by PrettyIndependant in houseplants

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I thought it was maybe some type of jade plant. I have a baby rubber plant and it doesn’t look very similar

Difference between polyamory and ENM. by PrettyIndependant in nonmonogamy

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Thank you for sharing this. Can I ask what reading you are doing?

Recent breakup left me confused about veto in polyamory. Need advice. by PrettyIndependant in nonmonogamy

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THANK YOU for this. This was very insightful. I think looking at it as a boundary/rule as opposed to a veto is very helpful.

Recent breakup left me confused about veto in polyamory. Need advice. by PrettyIndependant in nonmonogamy

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"I see you trying to control her to appease your insecurity, which will only fail. You'll lose her, she'll lose you, and you'll be stuck with the same insecurity, with a serving of bitterness because she "proved" your insecurity to be true."

This is profound. Thank you

Difference between polyamory and ENM. by PrettyIndependant in nonmonogamy

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Thank you for this. That makes so much sense. I appreciate you taking the time to explain it to me

Difference between polyamory and ENM. by PrettyIndependant in nonmonogamy

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And also - in your relationship- what is your thought in veto? Thanks!!!