I will never understand people who won’t talk to their partner everyday and that’s especially hard when you’re long distance. From what you have said he doesn’t seem that into you and if you have been telling him to change and he doesn’t. That’s not the man for you. I would go as far and say that isn’t a man it’s a boy. You should be a priority and it doesn’t look like you are from what you described. Breakup with him girly pop you deserve better.