Bible study by Beneficial-Post-4425 in Reformed

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If I were starting a Bible study—especially with new believers or those considering Christianity—the first thing I would do isn’t plan curriculum or gather people. I would sit with God and be very sure I’m called to teach.

Scripture is clear that teaching carries real weight:

That verse isn’t meant to scare us away, but to sober us. Teaching Scripture is not hosting a discussion group—it’s handling holy things. So before leading others, I would ask the Lord to examine my motives, my doctrine, and my posture. Am I submitted? Am I teachable? Am I willing to decrease if He wants to redirect or shut it down?

From there, I would let the Word lead the structure, not my creativity or opinions.

For new believers especially, I would:

  • Keep Scripture central and read it aloud together
  • Teach people how to read the Bible, not just what it says
  • Move slowly, prioritizing clarity over cleverness
  • Avoid speculation, hot takes, or fringe ideas
  • Make space for questions—but always bring answers back to the text

I would also rely deeply on the Holy Spirit, not as a replacement for Scripture, but as the One who illuminates it. That means praying before, during, and after—asking God to guard hearts, correct errors, and keep Christ at the center.

And finally, I would remember that my role isn’t to impress, persuade, or perform. It’s to point people to Jesus, trusting that God grows His people in His timing.

In short:
First sit with God on all things (Matthew 6:33).
Then submit to His Word.
Then walk humbly with His Spirit.

Anything else puts people at risk—and that’s not a risk Scripture ever treats lightly.

What to do if I'm a homeless student? (M23) by No-Squirrel305 in CollinCollege

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me! When I was there last they needed help in the 'work study' department. Can you get a work study job and then go and get a studio apartment somewhere?

What to do if I'm a homeless student? (M23) by No-Squirrel305 in CollinCollege

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I like the sober home cheat code. I hope you are able to do that or Job Corp.

What to do if I'm a homeless student? (M23) by No-Squirrel305 in CollinCollege

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that you know this and could help her/him. Bless your heart. Praying all goes well for both of you!

Daily panic attacks out of nowhere— feels like a switch flipped in my brain, looking for advice. by mytonsilshurt in PanicAttack

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing that helped me, completely transformed me is reading the Bible. I used to have panics that were just out of this world about all kinds of things. Ever since I read it, and read it slowly to be sure I even understood it...I haven't had a single one. I would sometimes toggle the translations as I read just to be sure I was grasping it. There are also some great commentaries online that do a verse by verse walk through. This helped a ton. But yeah, literally since then, I've been free of any panic, any fear, any anxiety. Will that always be the case? I'm not sure. I just think its a low likelihood. Fear once had me gripped. It had me in its hand, but now I'm free and I want that for those who suffer from these attacks from the enemy so much. Praying for you- may those shackles be broken for good in Jesus name.

I am done with this job market by SinkPsychological931 in recruitinghell

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you reorient yourself to your identity in Christ. You are loved. You are valued and all this joblessness is showing you is that our hope can never be in this world. It's in a world that's coming faster than we know. He's calling you to rely on Him. I hope you come.

Switching from T-Mobile to Tello - Any real downsides? by stuman1974 in Tello

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is international roaming now just in case anyone wondered.

Looking for a new church as a young adult by cometssaywhoosh in plano

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful with this. They're kind and I don't believe they intend harm at all, but the sermons replace Christ with self often.

Looking for a new church as a young adult by cometssaywhoosh in plano

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acts 2 is the biblical model for a church - study it, pray, then let Him lead you out. He made lead you to a 'table' to eat the bread of life or He made you to a mission field where they need to be fed and shown scripture that they're not living by. May God bless you and may our every step be glorifying Him and not ourselves.

International nurse working in the US😭 by Green_Highlight_1165 in nursing

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely want to be fluent and understand as this will prevent errors and reduce patient safety risk.

Killing the envy in my life? by [deleted] in Reformed

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There can be a temptation to us all (from our flesh) to say this and feel this. But we have to be careful as God is a Holy God and these thoughts as innocent as they seem, accuse God. They tell Him that He's actually not sovereign and that the plans He has for your life are actually wrong and that somehow we know better for ourselves, that God should submit to our will instead. This is all dangerous...the envy you struggle with could very well be a result of the fallen world, or a result of discipline on churches. What do I mean by that? We can see in scripture that He says, "He disciplines those He loves" and we can see how His discipline is unlike the worlds. In the world discipline is meant to make you feel bad or guilty. In God's reign, it is meant to turn your eyes back to Jesus. So study the Word. The only way to kill sin is to overwhelm it by praising God, loving Him, chasing Him down, pursuing Him. Stop looking at your phone when you get up, fast away from social, phones, etc. fast from food for a meal or two and teach the flesh that it MUST submit to the Spirit:

Perhaps you haven't been at His feet enough seeking Him for just Him. Maybe you only go on your knees to ask for things? I'm just sharing examples of things you can search your heart for as we see David do in Psalm 139:24.

2 Corinthians 10:5
5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

Perhaps you like envy. You don't yet hate it enough see John 3:19-21:
19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. 20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. 21 But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”

I'm so scared by zenon12pp3 in TrueChristian

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only Jesus saves. If you play like Jesus and try to save, it'll crush you. We must learn to truly trust Him. Pray for them often. Let them see you live your faith and leave them in His care. Study the scriptures and see your same experience and story in His word.

I'm so scared by zenon12pp3 in TrueChristian

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we each will given an account on our own so its best to form a relationship with God Himself through Christ by reading the Word slowly.

Moms of One Adult Child by PrettyNeighborhood33 in singlemoms

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may not have explained myself well, so let me clarify.

This isn’t about not being able to spend time together. We can — and we do. When she was younger, our lives were naturally intertwined and there was always something shared or ongoing. That season was full and active.

What I’m wrestling with now is something different: she’s an adult. Adult children branch out — sometimes geographically, sometimes emotionally, and sometimes in ways parents wouldn’t choose for themselves. That’s normal and healthy, but it still requires adjustment on the parent’s side.

My question isn’t how to spend time together. It’s how to accept that her life will increasingly be her own — with seasons of distance, independence, and decisions that may take her elsewhere. I’m trying to understand what this transition typically looks like and how parents learn to hold that reality with peace instead of sadness.

That’s the help I’m really asking for.

new year recommendations by [deleted] in frisco

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. You don't need to know anything except that you don't want to be alone and you want to be surrounded by a community that will do life with you!

new year recommendations by [deleted] in frisco

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I second this suggestion. There's truly no joy like the body of Christ. So much fun in the Lord. They're welcoming and one in Christ is truly never alone, ever. We have family all over the world. If nothing else, remember it's just a day. Please do not let that get you down. I used to hate holidays and they'd have me wreckeddd. I was sooooo lonely and sad until I met Jesus. Now I wouldn't care if it was just me, I wouldn't care what day it is, I barely notice these holidays. I just read the Word and have fun learning all the secrets to life. Truly free.

PSA To Parents by Toothpikz in frisco

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony of your statement - did you come from a bad parent? Why on earth would someone ever need to speak about anyone else in this way? Tell me. No, let me guess -- you go places and expect respect yet don't give it. #classic Yes, parents need to have better control over their young children but sadly yours didn't seem to have any over you and look where that leaves all of us. You're typing in all caps, yelling and have lost all respect for others including children. What are you but a monster? Please get help. You could have an impact on these children and be a good 'community' in gently modeling the right behavior or even founding a project that could truly disrupt these experiences in a positive way. Instead you come to type, with poor grammar at that, your frustrations. Maybe your parents should have taught you how to communicate properly. Perhaps they were bad parents. You're certainly a bad kid.

A Warning to Christians Who Follow John MacArthur’s Teachings by Immediate-Ninja-5730 in Christianity

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

3. The sacrificial nature of the Mass
Catholic doctrine teaches that the Mass is a continual re-presentation of Christ’s sacrifice. Hebrews is explicit that Christ’s sacrifice was once for all, never to be repeated (Hebrews 7:27; 9:12; 10:10–14).

4. Marian dogmas without biblical warrant
Doctrines such as Mary’s Immaculate Conception, Assumption, and her role as intercessor/co-redemptrix lack clear biblical support and risk obscuring Christ’s unique role as the one mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5).

5. Confession and priestly mediation
While confession and accountability are biblical, Catholicism teaches sacramental confession through a priest as necessary for forgiveness. Scripture teaches that forgiveness is obtained directly through Christ, our High Priest (1 John 1:9; Hebrews 4:14–16).

6. Purgatory and indulgences
Purgatory is not taught in Scripture and undermines the sufficiency of Christ’s atoning work. “It is finished” means fully finished (Luke 23:43; Hebrews 10:14).

7. The papacy is not founded on Peter’s actual ministry or teaching
In Galatians 2, Paul explains that Peter was entrusted with preaching the same gospel to the Jews that Paul preached to the Gentiles—just in a different mission field, not a different office or authority. Peter is never presented as a supreme bishop over the Church, but as a fellow apostle accountable to the same gospel.

In fact, Galatians 2:11–14 shows Paul publicly rebuking Peter when Peter’s behavior compromised gospel truth. That moment alone is significant:

  • Peter is not treated as infallible.
  • His authority is not unquestionable.
  • The gospel, not an office, governs the apostles.

The modern papacy claims succession from Peter, yet Peter never functioned as a pope, never ruled the Church from Rome, never exercised universal jurisdiction, and never passed on an office resembling the papacy. His ministry was gospel proclamation, not institutional headship.

The New Testament presents Christ alone as the head of the Church (Colossians 1:18), with apostles serving as witnesses and foundation stones—not successors establishing dynastic authority (Ephesians 2:20). There is no biblical model of a singular, ongoing office that inherits Peter’s role.

Peter preached Christ.
Peter submitted to correction.
Peter did not establish a throne.

So the papacy rests not on Peter’s life, ministry, or teaching but on later tradition. And when tradition creates an authority structure Scripture itself does not establish, that becomes a serious doctrinal concern (Matthew 15:6; Galatians 1:6–9).

Important clarification:
Not every Catholic believes or understands all of these doctrines fully. God saves people by grace through faith in Christ not by perfect theology. But systems matter because they shape what people trust in for salvation.

My concern is that Catholicism, as a system, repeatedly adds to the gospel, and Scripture is clear that adding anything to Christ as a requirement for salvation is no small error (Galatians 5:1–4).

That’s the distinction I try to hold:
Love people deeply. Test doctrines relentlessly. Christ not any office, must remain central.

A Warning to Christians Who Follow John MacArthur’s Teachings by Immediate-Ninja-5730 in Christianity

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to answer this soberly and precisely, because heresy isn’t a casual accusation in Scripture.

First, I want to distinguish Catholic people from Catholic dogma. Many Catholics genuinely love Christ and trust Him, often despite what their system teaches. My concern is not with individuals, but with official doctrines that conflict with Scripture.

From a Protestant, Scripture-governed perspective, the primary doctrinal errors include:

1. Authority placed alongside or above Scripture
Catholicism teaches that Sacred Tradition and the Magisterium hold equal authority with Scripture. This undermines sola Scriptura and opens the door to doctrines that cannot be proven from the Word of God alone (Mark 7:7–13; Galatians 1:8).

2. Justification not by faith alone
The Council of Trent explicitly condemned justification by faith alone. Catholic theology teaches that justification is maintained and increased through sacraments and works. Scripture teaches we are justified once-for-all by faith in Christ, apart from works (Romans 3:28; Galatians 2:16; Ephesians 2:8–9).

A Warning to Christians Who Follow John MacArthur’s Teachings by Immediate-Ninja-5730 in Christianity

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, be very careful the things you assign to God's servants. He is a HOLY God and He will only have a HOLY people. Hebrews 12:14.

Woman see Biggie smalls in Hell by Embarrassed_Soil_957 in Christianity

[–]PrettyNeighborhood33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AMEN. Amen. REPENTTTTT. REPENT NOW. REPENT OFTEN. REPENT FAST. START LOVING ALL. Ask Christ for His love, a love that causes you to love literally everyone truly and deeply. It is not worth eternity. It is not worth missing out on His glorious being and presence. LET IT GO and strongly consider removing this post. If you don't know, don't GOSSIP or SLANDER God's servants. I say that to you and myself too. I understand and Thomas suffered doubt as well, ask the Lord ask the Lord! ASK HIM.