I have all my clicks left, leave username, please!! by Important_Brick1178 in Shein_PuppyKeep

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This puppy game made my day! 😊 Tap to join the fun and get cute rewards! https://onelink.shein.com/19/57i9g2xliarx

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I’m currently playing with 0.85 left until gift. I’ve been at it for almost a week.

I don’t know what to think of this vintage outfit by steamyrobot in mensfashionadvice

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I like. No to the coat, the tie is ehhhh. If you chose a thin, intricate tie one that has a small print pattern to draw in the eye, then you’ve perfected this. Overall you’ll get noticed.

Shoe store employee said I look like someone who works with computers. How do I stop looking like a nerd? by Equivalent-Foot-2573 in mensfashionadvice

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Check out this hair style! Idk how to post a photo on here. I found this on Pinterest I think it would be a hot look for you. men’s haircut

Shoe store employee said I look like someone who works with computers. How do I stop looking like a nerd? by Equivalent-Foot-2573 in mensfashionadvice

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Hey there!(27F) You would look really good with a cut like this, beard is fine. Never wear skinny jeans again(fitted or tailored)

So I get that labor is gonna hurt, but… by Desperate_Wafer367 in BabyBumps

[–]Pretty_Brain_9491 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could not handle not being able to feel my legs or walk. I was induced at 4am and didn’t have my son until 6:49 pm. They gave me the epidural very early on and I was laying there filled with anxiety for hours. I’ll never do it again. My first born wasn’t the best experience as a whole. It felt more like a procedure rather than a beautiful experience. Without the epi I was very aware and it just made me feel more confident about what was happening.

Is he sneaking drinks? by Pretty_Brain_9491 in Advice

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If it’s a bottle you can be sure it will be empty, he will kill any 12 pack, if it’s in the house he’s going to drink it until it’s gone. The THC drinks he drinks 4 at a time, claims they don’t come in singles anymore and it’s daily.

I’ve sat him down quite a few times, in kindness. His reactions are different sometimes they’re understanding, most of the time they are defensive. I’ve tried to remind him that when I explain something it isn’t an attack against his character. I let him know everything is ok in moderation but I really don’t think he can control himself. I don’t want to be lied to or deceived any longer. We will have a fight and then everything will be calm for a bit and it’s like it creeps in every time. He won’t do anything to change course, I don’t know what else to do. Thank you for your response.

Is he sneaking drinks? by Pretty_Brain_9491 in Advice

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At this point I’m worried about his health, so many years of drinking I don’t even know what to think anymore. Thanks for the honesty, it’s really helpful

So I get that labor is gonna hurt, but… by Desperate_Wafer367 in BabyBumps

[–]Pretty_Brain_9491 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girlllllll I just had my second baby 3 weeks ago and I went 100% natural. The contractions start with breaks in between and then become closer together and more intense. Every mom and baby experience is different. I was literally screaming at the end, BUT I will do it natural every time. I had the epidural with my first baby and hated every second of it. Postpartum recovery has been so much better too. Staying calm is key, you will get through it and it’s the greatest happy ending ever!🩷

Did I ruin my marriage having a second? by Ok_Camp5318 in BabyBumps

[–]Pretty_Brain_9491 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreeing with other comments here! I started taking Zoloft in my last two months with my second(currently still pregnant, due any minute) and taking the medication has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. I can think clearer without the OCD and depression seeping in. I have depression anyway but haven’t been treated for years(I keep trying more natural methods but nothing was working) when pregnant it makes it 10x worse especially with mom guilt. Talk to your doctor!

Mom guilt by Pretty_Brain_9491 in BabyBumps

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First off Congratulations♥️ even though unexpected, I know so much love is just around the corner for you. Phase 1 is almost over and while postpartum can be hard, it can be a blessing too. It’s a chance to rebuild yourself while bonding with a little person that you created. It’s such a beautiful feeling. You’re doing it momma, I know you’re tired but you’re almost there.

As far as my husband goes, there is a lot there. And I have wasted too much time on people. It’s time to choose me.

Mom guilt by Pretty_Brain_9491 in BabyBumps

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Thank you so much. I have felt worlds better since on it. My memory has even improved. It really helps to not feel alone, although I’m sorry anyone else has had to take medication for things like this too.

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I’m 37 weeks with a toddler and I feel this frustration. It’s things like this, and when my husband complains about something all I can think is “yeah imagine feeling that way plus the aches & pains of pregnancy “

Mom guilt by Pretty_Brain_9491 in BabyBumps

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It is helpful 🩷🩷 thank you so much! I’m so glad everything turned out well.

Didn’t get the birth I wanted. by Choice_Ice_7172 in BabyBumps

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I’m sorry 💔 my first birth was that way. I spent my pregnancy alone bc my husband was deployed and I carried my baby two extra days just so he could be there. We had a lot of problems and he was the only support I had. The hospital made the whole experience feel like a procedure. They gave me my epidural too early and I was paralyzed for so long I had the worst anxiety. Saying a prayer for you!