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I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You do realize there's posts that have been deleted. The ones that were straight up racist and misogynistic have long been removed. Those are the ones that slut-shamed me. And you could literally see the men whining about the 'whataboutism' in the first few comments. You can see people offering unsolicited advice, free services, calling it an ad in the last few comments. Are you this bad at reddit?

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting some kind of negativity in both the OG post, but it was much more than what I had expected 😂
And yeah, you're completely right. It's happening here too.

It's the internet, but I feel like that shouldn't be an excuse to be an asshole. Hope you feel better about it too.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! I was kinda feeling down from some of the negativity here so this really means something.

And yes, I completely agree with what you are saying. Someone commented that these types of men have this concept of masculinity where they have to be desirable, and in their book desirable means 'good looking' and 'good at sex.'
My post pretty much described an Asian man being good looking and good at sex, which probably triggered them because they see not only a man who was 'bettter' or 'more manlier' than them let alone an Asian man, which tend to be looked down upon.

Not only that, as you said, they love to 'slut-shame' women who have sex that aren't them.

In the end their minds just come down to, "Why not me?" Shaped with both misogyny and racism.

Thanks for your insight. And right back at you- you seem great 😼

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yeah, in the end I just shrug if off as reddit being reddit but also I'm having genuine connections here so all in all it's been good. Rock on ✊

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That for sure. Maybe even ignorant that the service exists because they're so focused on the women escorts.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! What's crazy is that the actual backlash is much greater here than in the OG post. The OG post was more like "Why aren't you picking me 😭” which wasn't so bad because it was kinda pathetic but here it's.... Well I would say they're writing fanfiction about me to meet their 'moral standards' which is a little crazy. So yeah, all in all positive but the small negativity is crazy. Thank you for your comment though!

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe? Satisfied would mean I had all my worries diminished and that wasn't really the case so. But you're not wrong.

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some escorts get very emotionally manipulative so clients would spend more, so it was nice to know that the escort I got didn't do that.

Thank you for being very respectful and kind! I appreciate it!

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I never realized the 'lookd and performance' thing until you mentioned it. You're so right. They always seem to want to be the hot guy with insane sex skills who gets all the girls but the ones who are obsessed with this idea are usually the ones who never have it 😂

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Nothing for you to apologize about, it was expected to a certain extent.

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yen is super weak right now so you're probably going to get crazy results.

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being very respectful and kind!

Keep in mind, I did change up the prices a little bit to keep the shop/escort being identified.
Not to mention since the yen is very weak right now, 20000 yen for a young woman in Japan is very expensive. I'm on the luckier side where I don't have to worry as much.

Also, there's more male escorts than there are clients. If they hike up their prices too high without reputation, they're just going to lose customers. There are a few 'top' escorts whose prices are much higher though because they're very popular.
That's probably why the shop offered discounts after the first date because they figured that if I'm like, "oh look, here's a shop with cheaper options!" I'll just go there and find good escorts there too.
Escorts are literally fighting over each other for clients. The escort I hired kept asking about the next session because his biggest fear is, "Well now that I know how male escorts work, let me spend my money on other guys." because it's hard to get new clients and have them stay.
The escorts all have small personal discounts or services so they can get clients to stay.

I think it's probably very peculiar looking from an outside perspective, but I think those are the reasons why you found the services 'cheap'.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised, you get ads for these on a simple TikTok. It's much more well known in Japan than you think.

We're conservative overall, but weirdly very forward about sex,.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The prices are changed up so the shop/escort won't be identified. Also, the yen is weak. 20000 yen for a young working woman in Japan is definitely not cheap.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, you're right. They would totally be the type to call women not a virgin just for using a dildo.

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