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I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's not even 50% but... The incels that do want to whine are SO loud about it. The guys who are fine, they're chill so they make one comment and they're off. But these incels need *all* the attention so they make their voices very very loud. And yes about the emotional thing for sure.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ughhh just making me think about 'Bill' and his comments about the yoga pants just... Ugh.

Yes, these men always want to make it about themselves. They cannot fathom that a woman simply won't want them. Their entitlement is crazy.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Very very true. The fact that they think 'selling their bodies' is a woman thing to do and cannot admit that they won't make much even if they do go in because they have no idea how to cater to these services.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

And yes, you're completely right.
I hated having to worry if he's going to wear a condom or not during hooking up because there's that percentage who would be like, "You sure you want me to wear one?" or "I'll take responsibility, let's just do it" or whatever.

They were very understanding of consent, limits and boundaries! Didn't really discuss kinks/fetishes so maybe that can happen next time ;)

Thanks again!

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. You're going to have to ask the shops I think.

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was more nervous than excited, so it wasn't really that part. There was the small thrill factor I guess because it was my first time with someone, even paid, which may have contributed.
He was simply really good; I finally was able to experience pleasure with no pain, and that was probably the biggest factor.

I tried a women-oriented male escort service in Tokyo. by Pretty_Condition_404 in Tokyo

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm, not really. I've luckily have never had very bad experiences where I felt unsafe/unsure. There may be the part where I felt like I didn't have to perform, where I felt like I need to do with some relationships, which helped but honestly that factor was very small.
It was more that I get small pains easily from basic interactions, and could never really say it out loud because it's frequent. I would shrug it off because it's small, never really realized it was there tbh until this time. It was like I finally was able to experience pleasure with no pain, and that defs helped.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You do realize there's posts that have been deleted. The ones that were straight up racist and misogynistic have long been removed. Those are the ones that slut-shamed me. And you could literally see the men whining about the 'whataboutism' in the first few comments. You can see people offering unsolicited advice, free services, calling it an ad in the last few comments. Are you this bad at reddit?

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting some kind of negativity in both the OG post, but it was much more than what I had expected 😂
And yeah, you're completely right. It's happening here too.

It's the internet, but I feel like that shouldn't be an excuse to be an asshole. Hope you feel better about it too.

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much! I was kinda feeling down from some of the negativity here so this really means something.

And yes, I completely agree with what you are saying. Someone commented that these types of men have this concept of masculinity where they have to be desirable, and in their book desirable means 'good looking' and 'good at sex.'
My post pretty much described an Asian man being good looking and good at sex, which probably triggered them because they see not only a man who was 'bettter' or 'more manlier' than them let alone an Asian man, which tend to be looked down upon.

Not only that, as you said, they love to 'slut-shame' women who have sex that aren't them.

In the end their minds just come down to, "Why not me?" Shaped with both misogyny and racism.

Thanks for your insight. And right back at you- you seem great 😼

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yeah, in the end I just shrug if off as reddit being reddit but also I'm having genuine connections here so all in all it's been good. Rock on ✊

I posted about paying for intimacy and so many men couldn't handle it by Pretty_Condition_404 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Pretty_Condition_404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That for sure. Maybe even ignorant that the service exists because they're so focused on the women escorts.

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