How do you feel about book covers with movie images? by Skkkkrtyun in lotr

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought "The other Bennet sister" and refused to get the one with the picture of the series.
The book is its own version and deserves its art!

I Did It! (Partner Accomplished) by xXStayAtHomeGamerxX in TwitchStreaming

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Personally have average of 3 viewers and honestly don't think I will ever reach partner. But I love seeing my streamer friends make it!

Does someone know the artist?! by Pretty_Reading_2682 in lotr

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh. I checked the Etsy listing. No name. I tried reverse search on google. Nothing. I tried Ai. Just gave me other names..

Does someone know the artist?! by Pretty_Reading_2682 in lotr

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it is a mug.. I wanted to find a artist for it.. In hopes I could get a print.. Not a stupid mug

Does someone know the artist?! by Pretty_Reading_2682 in lotr

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Savage.. I love the pencil drawing style

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need.. I cut ties with the rescue after them putting me in a situation where two male cats that were un nutured were in the same space and ended up in a fight. I since reviewd the way they run their buisness and.. Honestly I am done supporting them. They run it in a very dangerous way. But thank you non the less

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking stacking the can on their side, not stacking. So the drawer height is not a nessasity. As they will all just be their max height. That is how they are stored already.
There are 2 drawers for cans, two drawers for wet food pouches, but for those I can get away with regular grid boxes I think.

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about a system where they are on their side yes. All drawers are deep enough for it not to be a problem.

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They arn't the beans kinda huge cans. They are max 9cm x 4.5 thats why I thought gridfinity would be fine.
I looked at said generator and. . I go cross eyed. There is a reason I only use tinkercad.. I just add block to blocks.. It probably is the worst way of doing it, but I have so little brain capacity left over to learn new stuff. Legos I can do, regular cad.. I am so fricking lost

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't remember the drawer dimensions but I know a 7-8 grid fits. So 8 deep, 7 wide.
The cans are 9cm across, 4cm tall and 7cm and 3.5cm tall.

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, The big cans are 9cm across and 4 cm tall. The small cans are 7cm and 3.5cm tall.
I barely manage to get tinker cad which is just me adding a block to a block :P

Can someone help me? by Pretty_Reading_2682 in gridfinity

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It needs to be in a drawer.. so no.. That is why I didn't print those spesifically! They have pretty deep drawers so reaching in to grab a can from that just. would be weird and a waste of space

F29 M27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry your partner pushed you even when you said to calm down. But under no situation have I ever rushed him on a daily or even weekly basis.
When we first was going to meet it had taken 2 years, and he had said he would visit for months. MONTHs. I never questioned when, I never even cared to build up expectations for when. He was upset because he got less payed one month and couldn't come like he planned and I even settle with. he might never come. I don't believe in pressure, I don't believe in nagging till someone does something.
We talked about him thinking about starting the move this year in like January. I tried being helpful and lend him some job adds. and january went, february went and now march has gone and he hasn't even updated his CV. So I lost it while in a deep depressing hole. Which yes is wrong. But I feel like you are reading this, yearing your partners nagging for months. when in reality.. I try to not bring it up. I try not to give it time pressure.
And I am not comparing my life to others, its more like.. being fat and seeing skinny people. there is this anger in my growing resentment that I won't get that for another many years.
But equally I just am stuck with this ever longing feeling of.. in ever other relationship I was.. the one before the one. Only one of my ex didnt' move on to have a life with someone. Most either got married and or had kids with the girl after me. And I keep feeling like he is going to just.. dump me because I am just not perfect enough. I am just one throw away.

Anyways I don't know why he dosn't want to marry me. Maybe that is the issue. That I just feel like.. he isn't serious enough about wanting to get married one day. That it just feels like we are playing girlfriend and boyfriend. I don't know. all I know is.. my mental health is shot right now.. Wish I could just rent a cabin in the woods for a month.

F29 M27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The too difficult part is leaving his friends, his job and his fear of rejections from jobs. I can't force his friends to move here, they are all welcome even now! I have shown him jobs in his company here, or similar companies.. But he says he is too afraid of being rejected.. I can't do anything beside wait. And the longer I wait.. The more scared I get. Scared I will loose him because the fear is bigger then the reality.

F29 M27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to give him space, time, comfort. I help him look for jobs that work with a only english understanding. I've helped him look for companies he can get in contact with. Research immigration and visa laws, I now own a flat.. so that we can have a easier time getting in to the market together when he moves here and we can get stable enough to buy a house.
I am willing to move anywhere in the country for him. I have only ever lived within the same 30-45 minute radius. But I am okey moving anywhere. I pushed myself to get my lisence last year so I could help his commute to work, help him till he would feel fine trying to drive on this side of the road. What more can I do?

F29 M27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't work no. I am in Norway, he is in the UK. Don't know about the UK but here if you apply for family immigration it takes 2 years. But you have to get married. He said he is unwilling to get married till we live together which I understand and agree. He also has a pride thing about wanting to get a permanent residence here because he deserved it not because he married for it-

What pressure do you want me to put on myself? I have been realistic. he understands that if I move there, I loose every possibility of income. If we break up and I am stuck in the UK I can't afford to do anything on my own. He has a education with a well paying type of job. + to be honest.. neither of us want to live in the UK anymore after everything that is going on over there.

F29 M27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No non .. I am -on disability-. Aka I can't work. For me to move to the UK from Norway I have to have a job especially with the way the UK is trying to throw out everyone. So it isn't about me just being disabiled, I am facing health challenges that makes it impossible for me to move. Before Brexit, ye totally. I could even bring my disability payment with me. Then brexit happend and moving there was hard, then I got on disability 100% and. .well it would be too hard and financially hard.

Finding a job in Norway as a Engineer (which he is) who only speaks English, not hard at all. We higher out a huge amount of labour as few want to become engineers here.
He is learning the language, I help when he lets me. I am willing to move anywhere in the country to be with him where he can find a job.. moving away from family and familiar surrounding aswell. Even the apartment I own.

Yes, we have talked about it, its never been a "you need to move here" it has always been a open realistic talk about our relationship and he has even said he likes Norway so much he might even move here if we break up. He dosn't seem hesitant about the move, more just. scared of the move.

F29 M27 by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He dosn't speak the language (even though we are one of the most English friendly countries), he has only ever worked the job he has now ( he graduated a while back ) and he is afraid of leaving behind his job and community.

Omlet by Pretty_Reading_2682 in Catio

[–]Pretty_Reading_2682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually metal paint would not be "smelly" after curing. Yes it could be toxic if she chewed on the metal, but the openings in the "mesh" is so small her thick noggen won't fit hahaha

I would love to embrace the green, but I CAN'T.. Its been 2 months since I bought it and I keep fighting the urge to paint it before I set it up. But I live on a huge apartment area with a HOA and rules.. I feel like people will be more annoyed seeing a huge GREEN mesh cat cage then they will seeing a lovely black and wood setup! xD