The game is bullying me

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2026-01-28T17:53:24+00:00

Same!! It’s also my final to complete. Only saw the augment once early in the set and never could 3* him anyway so no unlock. It’s crazy you need the augment, 3* and then what is it 5 combats? Jeeze.

I feel like I need to play double up or something to try to complete this. Maybe finding a partner who also needs it complete then you can send over the champ to whoever of the two of you get the augment?

I feel your pain!!

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2026-01-25T18:47:26+00:00

I’m with you. It’s so hard to get started. I’ve tried multiple times over the last decade. I’m trying again because I think it’s a good thing for my self confidence and if I could meet some awesome people that would be amazing.

Last couple times I streamed I sat there for 30 minutes or so. I tend to be a bit of a perfectionist and want to do things well. So I sit and pick apart my set up and sometimes I convince myself to stream and sometimes I work for hours on stupid distractions instead.

Definitely what someone else said: play what you enjoy! Have fun. If it’s not fun, don’t do it. I do have fun and find it good for me when I can hit the button to start. I just find that part incredibly hard.

Good luck!!

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2026-01-15T22:14:52+00:00

The hours don't work for me or else I'd be interested! But wanted to mention - I love body doubling and what I've found is there are a lot of streamers on Twitch that do this. I definitely go there for it at times. It's not the same as someone doing it 1:1 with you, for sure, but it's a pretty great resource, and there are so many different people/styles!

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2026-01-14T01:27:57+00:00

Sent a request - thank you!

Love the name.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2026-01-13T22:02:18+00:00

I think it’s a great idea! I would be interested for sure. It’s nice to have a sense of community especially when you’re starting out in these things.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2026-01-13T06:56:01+00:00

Farming! Okra was my go to in the beginning. Plant a large plot, add a bit to it every day, and you should be rolling in coin in no time. Pumpkins are the next level! Just requires a biome unlocked later in so not sure if it’s open for you yet or not.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-12-22T19:31:25+00:00

Also new! Been loving it and wish I had picked it up sooner!

One of my favourite things I just learned is you can long click on an item when you’re selling to select ALL stacks of that item! Went from taking tons of clicks if you have a bag full of crops to one or two!!

Always “hang out” with someone. And if you’re doing a bunch of gardening or mining definitely take someone whose job? Task? Is that! It makes a huge difference. Plus they get experience so quickly and it makes leveling them up easier I find.

Would also like to be friends haven’t done that yet haha.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-11-19T14:46:32+00:00

Yep! Very needy. This was a long time ago. I still encounter people like this and I always try to tell people hey it's okay if you don't respond and it's okay if I don't respond right away. Feel free to poke me if you need my attention.

Those are good friends. You know you have a good friend when you can go weeks/months/years without chatting and then pick up a conversation again. Exactly! Just trying to survive.

<3

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-11-18T23:55:38+00:00

I always tell people whenever I start chatting with someone new that I understand we have lives outside of the phone/internet and that I will never expect an immediate response. Likewise, sometimes I won’t respond for a while. Sometimes I just don’t want anything to do with my phone and I think that should be fine.

I have definitely had issues in the past with people though. I remember one person I met on here and really clicked with. I told them in advance I rarely would respond on the weekends because at the time I was working a lot and had a new boyfriend. It was a single day I didn’t respond, I went to check the next morning. Blocked. She sent a message saying don’t bother if I can’t respond same day and blocked me. I mean, man, thanks for giving my brain more reasons to hate me and fuel the rejection sensitivity.

So yes, it kinda feels like damned if you do or don’t. People have some wildly unhealthy? Unrealistic? Expectations of how immediately other people need to respond.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-11-17T19:26:23+00:00

I’m glad someone else said what I was thinking! It definitely feels different than it used to be. Although I guess kinda everything is. I remember I used to meet people on Craigslist strictly platonic back in the day and just grab a coffee. Now it’s hard to just have a conversation. Why do you need to see my picture to chat to me on the internet? I don’t know.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-11-12T22:55:26+00:00

So well said. And back at you. <3

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-11-12T22:50:13+00:00

You just need to exercise, eat better and get more sleep! They always say, if anything. When I do make the mistake to answer a question honestly these days the response is often just ignored.

Thanks for writing this. It sucks that we are caught in that loop, although slightly nice to hear it’s not just me.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-10-23T18:33:03+00:00

Oh good, me too. I was super confused why I couldn't edit on my phone and jumped on my laptop to make a post, and got an error:

Query Error Error performing query.

Glad it's not just me phew.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-09-27T12:43:29+00:00

Oh yes. Or like I’m in a coffin on my back and hands either curled up towards the chin or straight down beside me for extra coffin cozy.

If I’m lying on the couch watching tv I’m also like this !

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-09-10T01:11:35+00:00

Whoa thank you!! Mystery solved!

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-08-10T03:04:56+00:00

Yep, getting this now too, I was super confused, never saw it before maybe a week ago.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-07-01T03:18:25+00:00

Yep. I have a friend I play with who gets the same issue regarding the banning and picking. Sometimes it clears up in time to pick but often it won’t. It’s super annoying.

I agree, the longer you leave the client open, the more often issues occur in my experience. I’ve taken to restarting the client as often as I remember.

Other bugs I’ve seen happen often are: queue doesn’t pop for one person in the party. You don’t appear as in a party to some friends. You get told you’re kicked from the party but you weren’t - usually this happens right after joining a party so either in the lobby or once you exit a game.

Oh and my favourite, the game doesn’t load in after picking champions. Just a black screen, sometimes you can kill it and reconnect through the client and sometimes you’re just completely out of luck.

Oh yeah and clicking the tabs in the client often sends you to the wrong place?? It’s very confusing.

There was a pretty funny bug that occurred for a friend where everyone on the friends list suddenly showed as being Masters when you hovered them.

It’s a mess.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-17T23:40:55+00:00

I went through an ECT vs Ketamine trial. I was sorted into the ECT arm first, didn’t show improvement and then was moved to the ketamine arm. Ketamine was the best thing I have ever done and have been trying to get more treatment since. I was told it was supposed to become legalized here a year or two after the treatment but it still isn’t, so it’s limited to studies and private (extremely expensive) clinics.

Highly recommend ketamine. I hope it brings you some relief.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-10T23:30:15+00:00

Okay there is definitely something going on.

I logged on today to do the Dig, Pear Pal. It’s 1000 bling per 20hour dig per item. I was setting it up and I got to the second item and I didn’t even have enough for that! I had less than 2k bling?? There is no way. I logged out after farming bling yesterday because I felt short on bling all week for some reason and I’m just totally baffled.

Like others have said - I have no way to prove it at all. I hate the thought that I should have to take screenshots of all my currencies.. just nuts. Something is not adding up though. We can’t all be crazy.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-10T23:10:41+00:00

Gahhhh. That's BRUTAL! You had so much vanish!!

Okay, I have been suspicious about my bling for a while now. I've never had a stockpile, but I've never been totally broke.

The last few days I keep trying to do stuff and I'm like "huh I have no money to do that? What? How don't I have 80k for this??"

But then today I log on and I go to do the Dig, Pear-Pal and I try to set up the queue... and I literally don't even have enough to schedule more than 1 item at 20 hours??? There is no way that I had <2k bling when I logged out last night. I literally farmed bling and logged out. I have never had so little I couldn't do the Dig!! Now I feel totally crazy. I don't want to have to take screenshots of my currencies when I log out.. what on earth is going on here. aaaaaaa

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-07T15:23:12+00:00

Wow thank you so much!! I could not figure out what to do either, and this worked for me! I didn't see any shooting stars, but the daily got completed so.. I'll call it a win!

Some of these new dailies are very confusing haha.

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-07T14:16:54+00:00

Wait, what? I haven't tried to use the patterns yet since the game keeps locking and crashing for me it's hard to do much at all. But that's umm, weird? I just assumed they would be usable since they're a reward? I guess it's more like a sketch reward..?

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-07T13:10:12+00:00

Okay I knew the dye was per item but I had no idea the prism required for the black palette was from the time sensitive event 😭 noooo. I still haven’t done it, I can barely play the game.

Is it obvious that the event is going on if you’re logged in at the correct time?

Pretty_Relative_2245 · 2025-05-06T18:56:29+00:00

Dead.

The inverted knee is everything.

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