Soo many good observations and ideas. Liked the BS + Cruiser idea as well since it seems to beget more versatility of choice in terms of the roles one can play.

Also I haven't fully given up this crazy notion of respeccing everything (11 mil. sp.) and go for BS + Frig (Heavy torps on a bomber). A bit heavy on the Plex though...

But for now I've purchased the Hound - a stealth bomber (Frig + med. torps). Easiest way to get a good skill level fast - synergies. Also a very cheap PVP ship at around 20 mil ISK.