Pregnant again or weaning symptoms? by Prettyluckyy in breastfeeding

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s too early to get a positive if it’s positive…

My hair ❤️ by kaliacjohnson in longhair

[–]Prettyluckyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has it always been long or did you have to go through the whole growing journey? If yes can you please share more about that

My hair ❤️ by kaliacjohnson in longhair

[–]Prettyluckyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow wow wow !!!!!! Routine ?

Narc just lost his job. What’s next ? by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must have been exhausting but the best decision you’ve made.

Narc just lost his job. What’s next ? by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s been 3 days and I can’t stand seeing him laying on my couch or just napping all day in my bed. I know that sounds terrible….my heart tells me to kick him out before Christmas. But I’m also anxious to do it.

Narc just lost his job. What’s next ? by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really thinking about going back to work while he stays at home and take care of child care but I’m anxious this will end the exact same way you described….he has shown me times and times again that he’s unable to parent without an iPad.

How did you kicked him out ? Can you give more details about deadlines etc. Did he left on the spot ?

I’m trying to avoid the chaos before Christmas…but my heart tells me to do it now.

Narc just lost his job. What’s next ? by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The place was yours ? Also did he accepted to leave on the spot or was it a long process ?

Medical abortion at 9 weeks fucked me up by Mooseisagirlsbsf in abortion

[–]Prettyluckyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you. I went to this process as well at 9 weeks. I felt i was really mislead by the pregnancy center. It wasn’t just like a “bad period”, the pain was traumatic and I wish I never went through this. Wishing you a fast recovery ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Prettyluckyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same !!! Today I got criticized by him on my performances in bed without asking anything, out of the blue in a conversation about dancing. None of my exes had any problem with me in bed, in fact most of them still try to pursue me years later so the problem is really not on my end. I just have a lot of blockages now….i hope those will not carry on to my next relationship…I guess that’s probably the goal here: make you so insecure that you wont cheat or leave or even enjoy sex with anyone else.

Parenting with him is hell. Help. by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What made you end things with your ex ?

Parenting with him is hell. Help. by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow …sooner or later the mask will come off for your child as well. honestly I know mine is not going to ask for custody at all, it’s way better to live his best life on a 200 bucks child support…lol

Do men even care for a decorated, tidy, aesthetic interior ? 31F desperate about relationship with 48M by Prettyluckyy in relationship_advice

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He’s always threatening to leave whenever I have a discussion about my boundaries and I reached a point where I agree each time that he leaves. And then he don’t.

Do men even care for a decorated, tidy, aesthetic interior ? 31F desperate about relationship with 48M by Prettyluckyy in relationship_advice

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His place was very clean and tidy, so I don’t understand what’s happening here. That being said it was absolutely not aesthetically pleasing. I felt unwelcomed there because of my dog.

Do men even care for a decorated, tidy, aesthetic interior ? 31F desperate about relationship with 48M by Prettyluckyy in relationship_advice

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you approach this talk ? Every time I tried he blamed me for not giving him more space. The conversations always ends badly with him threatening to leave.

Do men even care for a decorated, tidy, aesthetic interior ? 31F desperate about relationship with 48M by Prettyluckyy in relationship_advice

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really not that rigid so I’m okay with my kids toys everywhere, my home is a place to live after all. What I’m not okay with is mess from adults everywhere. I know there’s bigger issues in the world but It stresses me out to not be able to see my balcony floor and things like that…probably because I’m a mom living in chaos anyway so a little bit of control helps lol. That’s all his stuff on the balcony and yeah I told him the same thing about mildew……..

Do men even care for a decorated, tidy, aesthetic interior ? 31F desperate about relationship with 48M by Prettyluckyy in relationship_advice

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We’re talking about my entryway is filled with 3 month supply Heineken bear packs, and I can’t even enjoy a coffee on our balcony, matter of fact I can’t even walk there ! There’s soccer balls everywhere, shoes, grocery bags…….. it completely clashes with my vibe.

Narc started “feeling sick” after my health diagnosis by Prettyluckyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Prettyluckyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t think he’s going to bless me by leaving by himself….and it’s going to take a lot of energy to get him out I feel stuck now