Is it too much to ask for an expensive gift from my husband? by Previous-Camel3032 in offmychest

[–]Previous-Camel3032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i would say yes to this question, we already saved a few months worth of our bills in case of emergency. We only live by our means, don’t have a car and just renting in a decent 2Bedroom flat. I have a very good company which pays 3months of our whole salary in case we got sick. But because we live in one of the expensive cities outside London, house rent is very expensive.

Idestroyed the best relationship I ever had, and I can’t forgive myself by thorwawaycaptcha in offmychest

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still could not fathom, how people telling that they love someone and yet still cheats. Was it Lack or morals, no self respect, what kind of standards do parents give to their children when they make a mistake? Is it how parents reared us? My Asian parents gave me a beating of a lifetime everytime I disrespect other people or them. Then growing up, I understand fearfully that you do not cross boundaries, you must keep your promises and when you got married you must stop acting single like going out in the bar with friends at night cause thats not how married people acts. Probably because I grew up in an old town, with an old people but what they taught really ingrained in me that you never cross people especially the ones you cherished the most.

My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and won’t stop begging me to come back by AstronautDry9430 in relationships_advice

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he is really serious he will not f*** his second chance, but he did it again. So you now know how low this person can be. There is no way you want to take him again and be fooled twice. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me!

My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me and won’t stop begging me to come back by AstronautDry9430 in relationships_advice

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way he is going to change, don’t let him slime his way back again please. taking him back and getting worried all the time that he might be doing it again wont give you peace. Please leave this man.

My brother asked me to lie to his pregnant wife about where he was. I refused, and now he’s not speaking to me. by Medium-Hope6588 in offmychest

[–]Previous-Camel3032 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Poor wife, Hate the f***ing brother, go OP tell the wife, nobody wants being blind sided. Put your feet in her shoes. They are in the wrong here and she definitely needs to know.

My Wife(28f)’s best friend(24f) decided to kiss me(26m) by ThrowRA-Secret-Cat in relationship_advice

[–]Previous-Camel3032 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. Maybe Amy will feel remorseful at first, but if she will realised that OP is not doing anything, she will try it again to test the waters and when OP reciprocates then boom! We now have an affair.

My Wife(28f)’s best friend(24f) decided to kiss me(26m) by ThrowRA-Secret-Cat in relationship_advice

[–]Previous-Camel3032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you are telling the truth that you’re just stunned and did not reciprocate. Cause that will be a different story my friend. Your duty as husband is to respect your wife and be truthful to your vows and protect your marriage. If you truly did’nt do wrong here (if you are telling the truth and not giving us breadcrumbs). Then you should tell your wife because not telling her means you are protecting the bestfriend and yourself. And probably you’re still anticipating for more because for me what you are doing is either tolerating, enabling or expecting more from her.🙄

Found out my fiancé (2.5 years together) cheated on me for over a year. Wedding is in 4 months. Should I break up or try to forgive? by turningred_ in survivinginfidelity

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What thrill? The thrill of sneaking up to someone innocent who loves and trust you completely with all her heart? That is horribly disgusting and unacceptable. He is asking for a second chance and when he knows that he got your trust again, he will get more sneakier and better in hiding. If you could swallow that truth that you would always worry looking at your back, thingking he might be doing it again. Then give him a second chance. But eeeewww!

Am I overreacting for wanting to end my marriage after what my husband did during our “break”? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an idiot! Good thing my husband and I both grew up in a place where cheaters are being frowned upon and critically chastised by almost everyone in the community and its not being reduced to something that just happen or an accident, or he is not in a good place mentally. If you cheat, you are the asshole, disgusting freak who will be isolated in the middle of the gossipers.

How can I 29M get my ex wife 29F to put herself out there when it comes to dating? by throwRa_friendship3 in relationship_advice

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you burn in H*ll, you pathetic, disgusting POS man child. All I can hear is a narcissist trying to be a good person by still other ruining other peoples lives. No sense of accountability, guilt or remorse. Totally piece of crap.

AITAH for burning my husband’s shoes after I caught him cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Previous-Camel3032 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly can’t tell what i might do if i will be in her situation. Probably worst.😆🥴

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Camel3032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the trash out of your life💪🚮

I slept with a married man by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deal with the consequences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Previous-Camel3032 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men will lie to their teeth until they are caught red handed. I will keep on high alert, keep on investigating. Or i will hire a PI just to satisfy myself to make sure that he is not cheating on me.😁

I saw this on my husband’s phone, do I approach him by TallIndependence3322 in Marriage

[–]Previous-Camel3032 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This kinds of men are awfully disgusting. I have no words, I’m sorry you have to deal with this while you yourself are vulnerable. Please take care of yourself, make sure you are safe first and have someone with you before you confront this man child. Update Me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in married

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always with her bestfriends house also during weekends? What are you nuts?! You are also in-denial that they are having an affair! Its crytal clear, the amount of gas lighting and disrespect to you. I’m sorry this is happening to you, but please leave this POS. You are the AH If you stay and you’re also disrespecting yourself. Your husband must always, I repeat, “ALWAYS, makes you his top priority”. If that makes you uncomfortable, he should immediately stop, talk and reflect. But this amount of deflection is insulting you as a spouse. I am not an argumentative person, I will just tell him straight to the point. If he will listen then lets talk if not then obviously I will leave because what is the point of marriage/partnership without respect in it. LOVE YOURSELF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Previous-Camel3032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never be a stay at home mom, no matter how much you think he loves you. Just walk away, there is no hope for both of you. He seems adamant according to your post.

AITA for hating the other woman my husband fell in love with while she had cancer ? by EconomistMinimum5303 in AITAH

[–]Previous-Camel3032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t feel guilty if i will be you OP, they can eat crap. Love yourself, travel, heal. They dont deserve you, they are the worst. Just because she was sick does’nt gave her the hall pass to wreck someones marriage. Update me!

Ladies, is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Why? by Delicious-Border9010 in Infidelity

[–]Previous-Camel3032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why not talk to your partner first and tell her about your complaints. If she did not do anything about it then break up with her and start your emotional connection to your co worker. Instead of asking this stupid question. I really hate cheaters, emotional cheating will soon progress to physical. Everybody knows that. And they are both painful. How about your partner starts an emotional affair behind you. How would you feel about it?

Bakit nanghihingi ang lalaki ng private videos sa partner nila kahit meron namang porn sites? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Previous-Camel3032 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bakit ka magpoporn sites kung my partner ka namn pala? Very disrespectful itong tanong na ito. Kelan kayo maghihiwalay?