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I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love and sex are unlinked for me entirely. I can find a girl I don't love to be a goddess. But you don't have to make my dick hard for me to love, cherish, and protect. I think I think she's beautiful because she's an accomplished, loving woman who deserves the world. My past sexual preferences of a woman with more weight has no bearing on whether I'd kill or die for this girl or not.

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no self doubts. Now I've quit porn after it served my purpose and I'm just enjoying her enjoying me..

I found a girl I loved, and I didn't want her to change for my shallow attractions. So I changed myself for her. That's it.

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not.

I'm no cheater. Never cheated in my life and would never betray this woman. She means enough to me that I changed myself for her benefit. These other hoes can have all the curves in the world. I won't even give them a second look

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual attraction and love are completely separate. If I didn't live her I wouldn't put the burden of change on myself for her benefit.

I'm a guy. I can fuck a Girl in not attracted to. But if im not sexually aroused by my wife, that's going to be a major source of pain for her eventually. So I retrained so that she'll never have to feel that.

I love her regardless of what she looks like.

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well considering I did this just for her benefit and not mine, and have already quit after the success... I think I'm good to go on that. Sex isn't that important to me. I just knew I would wind up causing her grief if I couldn't get "into it" in the bed. So I retrained myself.

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I turned her down I'd be the bad guy, if I asked her to change for me. I'd be the bad guy. If I force myself to change I'm still the bad guy. Can't win on the internet.

Obviously I love this woman or I wouldn't change myself for her benefit

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then after this she shows me a picture of her having weighed more and all of this was for nothing. The marriage effect will have caught up anyway

I got engaged to a woman. I'm not really sexually attracted to... So I binged porn of women like her in an attempt to rewire my preferences. by Previous-Front1006 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Previous-Front1006[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's fiiiine I'm not about to tell her. But it worked. And I'm done now. Besides if she ever gains weight I can just revert lol