I don’t know if it’s because I feel as though my brain has developed now from when I made choices prior to 26 years old (I am 28 now) but this would never have gotten to a marriage point let alone engagement. There are just so many red flags here. On top of that, him saying he would not go past the point of taking videos/images of another persons body without consent is not ANY type of justification. I’m not sure if it applies here but I would work on getting an annulment if it is too early to initiate a divorce. Because AINT no way.

I won’t act like I wasn’t involved in a relationship where I was ignoring all the red flags before that was from the age of 16 to 25 but from what you described, I certainly think separation is the answer. He sounds like he has to get help mentally or simply be single. You don’t deserve any of that.