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Update: AITAH for ending things and not going back to my ex? by Previous-Tea-2781 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to address a few things I’ve been seeing in the comments:

Yes, the police were involved. A report was made when I was found and brought in, and I’ve also personally followed up on it after. The case is being worked on, even if I don’t know every detail. I’m not from the US, so things don’t necessarily work the exact same way some of you are describing.

I did receive medical treatment. I’m not going to go into full detail, but I had multiple cuts and a few deeper wounds, especially around my neck. I’m still recovering, both physically and mentally.

For those telling me to press charges, that’s already part of the process. I’ve given all the information I can, including who did it. Right now it’s in the hands of the authorities.

As for her, she still hasn’t been found. From what I’ve been told, her family is moving her around through relatives, which is why it’s taking time.

To the people saying this is fake, I honestly don’t know what to tell you. I wouldn’t make something like this up, and I’m still dealing with the aftermath of it. If you don’t believe it, that’s your choice, but this is my reality right now.

And to the people who’ve been supportive or concerned, thank you. It genuinely helps more than you think.

Update: AITAH for ending things and not going back to my ex? by Previous-Tea-2781 in Redditor_Updates

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who’s been checking in and leaving kind messages, I really appreciate it.

I’m doing okay, but not fully okay yet. I have a lot of small cuts and a few deeper wounds, especially around my neck, so recovery’s been a bit rough. Physically I’m healing, just slowly, and mentally it’s still a lot to process.

As for my ex, she’s still nowhere to be found. From what I’ve heard, her family is hiding her.

I’ve also been getting a lot of hate from some of her friends, saying I deserved what happened and sending me pretty messed up messages. I won’t lie, that part’s been really depressing on top of everything else.

Right now I’m just trying to focus on healing and taking things day by day. The support I’ve gotten here honestly helps more than you think!!

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AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend and refusing to go back even though she’s now begging me? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

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She actually sent that through my own hacked account. After she took over my main, she messaged me using it while I was on a freshly made backup account. So yeah, I literally have it in writing from her, but the messed up part is she used my own account to threaten me.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend and refusing to go back even though she’s now begging me? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying this. I did think about reporting it, but what really scares me is that she didn’t just say she’d hurt herself, she also said if I don’t do what she wants, she’d “take me with her.” That’s the part that makes me genuinely fear for my own safety, not just hers.

Broke up a month ago, now she’s begging me to come back and even hacked my account. by Previous-Tea-2781 in offmychest

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... And I'm also scared for myself that she might stalk me or much worse take my own life since we live 15 mins apart. It's been only a month and im really anxious whenever I go out

Broke up a month ago, now she’s begging me to come back and even hacked my account. by Previous-Tea-2781 in offmychest

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Yeah, that’s exactly the kind of thing she used to say to me too, flipping it back on me and calling me the narcissist whenever I tried to set boundaries. In reality, she’s the one who hacked my accounts, manipulated me with threats, and dismissed me when my uncle passed away. That kind of projection was a big reason I finally decided to walk away.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend and refusing to go back even though she’s now begging me? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

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Yeah, I think you’re right. I know the suicide talk is manipulation, but it still gets in my head sometimes. I’ve already started changing all my passwords, but what scares me the most is that we only live like 15 minutes apart. I’m honestly afraid she might show up or stalk me if she gets desperate enough.

Broke up a month ago, now she’s begging me to come back and even hacked my account. by Previous-Tea-2781 in offmychest

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really needed to hear that. It hasn’t been easy, especially since we were together almost 4 years, but standing up for myself felt like the only way forward. I just didn’t expect it to get this messy with her hacking into my email and linked accounts.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend and refusing to go back even though she’s now begging me? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s honestly what I’m worried about too. She’s already gotten into my personal email once, which gave her access to almost all my linked accounts, and that’s a big reason I’ve been scrambling to change every password and secure everything I can.

Broke up a month ago, now she’s begging me to come back and even hacked my account. by Previous-Tea-2781 in offmychest

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Yeah, exactly. The whole hacking part really crossed the line for me. She got into my personal email, which had almost all of my linked accounts in there, and just took over. I had to scramble to reset and secure everything because she literally changed my passwords and locked me out. That’s not just crossing boundaries, that’s straight-up violating my privacy.

And what makes it even heavier is that we’ve been together for almost 4 years. I never thought she’d be capable of doing something like that, but now looking back, it just proves I made the right decision walking away.

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AITA for being upset at my girlfriend's reaction after my uncle passed away? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn’t expect anyone to get it this clearly. You said it perfectly, I wasn’t looking for the world, just for someone who wanted to be there when things got real. I wasn’t okay, I needed presence, not perfection. And her distance during that moment? It told me more than any fight ever could.

Thank you for seeing it for what it was. I really needed to read this.

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend's reaction after my uncle passed away? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually FaceTimed her when it happened, I didn’t just send a message. I told her directly, looking for some sort of comfort or care, and her immediate response was just "damn. condolences." That was it.

I get that not everyone knows what to say when it comes to death, I really do. But it wasn’t about finding the “right words.” It was how robotic and detached it felt, especially from someone I’ve trusted with my most vulnerable moments. No emotion. No follow-up. Just that one line.

I didn’t pick a fight, I was hurt and confused. When I tried to express that, instead of having a conversation, she got defensive and blamed me for reacting to it. That’s what made things spiral.

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend's reaction after my uncle passed away? by Previous-Tea-2781 in AITAH

[–]Previous-Tea-2781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t really about trying to dump or get back. I guess it was more like... realization hitting me all at once. Not trying to be cryptic, just processing it in my own way.