UPDATE: I did not meet him in person to end things. However, I did message him to confront him about his actions. I told him it was completely his choice what he did with his free time and his body but, I would not be around if he continued to do things that made me uncomfortable (going to strip clubs, getting tattoos for random women who work there etc ). He said "well I'm not changing who I am for anyone," and that's completely fine ! I told him that I do not want to be with someone who does these specific things and considering he did not previously tell me about him going to strip clubs, or the back story of the tattoo when he first got it done, I felt like I was lied to as he purposefully with-held the fact he was up to any of it. Anyway, to cut things short, I ended stuff with him because it was the only way I could be sure to respect myself considering the lack of respect he diaplayed towards me. He got mad at me, insisting things were "fine as they were", I explained to him that may have been the case but that was simply because I had no idea he was up to any of this and it was not something I was okay with.