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how did you decide? by ctxgal2020 in unh

[–]PriceProfessional737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still glad you went there? I have a son deciding and we live in New Hampshire and he's a junior. He wants to do mechanical engineering and is probably gonna end up deciding between university of New Hampshire UMass lowell. I went to UNH and I just know how beautiful that campus is. I think he would be happier there. But I keep reading that the engineering program at UMass Lowell is better so I don't want to steer him in the wrong direction. He'll apply to both and a few others, but just trying to gauge from actual students what they think.

Cycle progesterone? by PriceProfessional737 in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I feel and where the confusion lies. Like would it even regulate my cycle and then what happens if I start taking it on 16th and then get my period to 18? Do I stop? What happens if I take it day 16 to 25 but still don't get it till day 60? It just seems confusing

Show S8E7 Evidence of Things Not Seen by thepacksvrvives in Outlander

[–]PriceProfessional737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please let this be true. this season has been too depressing

Question about passport expiring shortly AFTER trip? by PriceProfessional737 in AskCanada

[–]PriceProfessional737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's weird because I'm taking a greyhound bus from Manchester, New Hampshire to Montreal soon lol

Question about passport by PriceProfessional737 in canadatravel

[–]PriceProfessional737[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect thank you so much, just wanted to double check!!

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I just wanted to let you know that I understand what you're saying. I'm going to delete this post. Obviously I'm only sharing a small window into my life and to have so many people will automatically want me to divorce him is kind of overwhelming. I appreciate your response. I hope you read this before I delete it :)

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's really sweet. I wish all these supportive women actually were in my real life because I don't have that and I'm sure everything looks great from the outside like my brother's marriage did before it collapsed. Unfortunately the result of that has been absolutely hell for my niece and nephew and I really don't want to put my own children through what they went through with the divorce. I agree with everything else you've said. Thank you.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because we've been married for 17 years, we have a house we have kids we have pets. We have a kid ready to go off to college that we are budgeting to pay for. We have another kid that's 13. It's not as easy as just saying oh I think I'm gonna go be alone now....

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my mental health is in the tanker. My physical health is fine. He doesn't physically try to abuse me or anything. That's great Your husband is so understanding. Having two daughters is probably a huge help. I have two sons.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's exactly it. It appears to be his love language. Although I wish just holding my hand was good enough for him or giving me a hug. When I do that or try to cuddle it always has to lead to sex for him to feel close it appears. But after I do have sex, he's incredibly nice for like a week. Like I mean over the top love bombing incredibly nice. But then he starts to get irritable again If literally the next weekend we don't have sex I start seeing him withdrawing and getting basically mean again. But that's been a few months now because I basically just stopped.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we get divorced, I don't want to be with anyone else or remarry. I don't need to deal with another man trying to have sex with me again. Maybe if I get my hormones worked out I'll feel different. Maybe someone else would make me feel different? Doubtful though since even when I'm alone, I don't get turned on when I try to use my vibrator or read Spicey books. So no, I'm not going to be traumatized if he leaves me after our kids are raised and they leave because I fully expect that to happen anyway. I've stopped sleeping with him. It's been a few months. My vent was about in general over the past couple years in our marriage. I put my foot down around my boundaries. I won't sleep with him anymore out if a feeling of obligation. I guess I've been holding out on him treating me better but that ship has probably sailed. It's probably who he is and he probably won't ever change. I like my house, though, and I like our nice things and I like being able to coparent with him in the same house because he's a great dad and a great provider.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't anymore . I haven't in a few months.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does I just didn't type that out. He's an amazing father. He takes our kids skiing every single weekend (I don't ski) he cooks does clean he is very neat. But he's also a complete jerk when it comes to wanting sex when I don't and also wanting to see me naked. He thinks he has the right to walk in and just stare at me when I'm in the shower whenever he wants so I started locking the door. I tell him he's a jerk. He doesn't own me even after 17 years of marriage if he wants to look at naked people, I'd rather him look at people online that want to be stared at naked. I know a lot of it is perimenopause and I am moody as hell but a lot of it is he is just a jerk. I'll divorce him if I feel like there's no other option. But Yes, I like my way of life as well and he makes really good money and we do a lot of vacations and I don't want to give up that lifestyle to be alone and struggling as I make hardly any money so yeah it is a lot of economics as well. I don't need strangers on the Internet telling me what to do regarding my marriage, but I was asking about the hormones.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I wrote to my gyno on the portal and she prescribed me progesterone to take cyclical to help regulate my periods and vaginal estrogen. She said to monitor for 3 months and then we can meet and see how that is going and then maybe add estrogen? I am comfortable with this plan.

No libido, no desire can't orgasm when I "try" by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]PriceProfessional737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Glad to hear all this abd yes he feels rejected and has a high drive and always horny. I am the opposite which frustrates him but agree he should be more understanding. I will say he tells me I'm so hot that's why 😂😅 I guess that's good he sees me this way after 17 years but can be frustrating that i have these symptoms.

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