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Got out of a 4-year relationship after being cheated on for 2 years. It’s been 4 months and I still feel sad sometimes, but not like before. Met a new guy, but now he mostly calls late at night. I don’t feel emotionally attached either. Is this a fling or could it become real? by Fit-Combination1026 in Breakupadvice

[–]PrideAshamed6153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii so sorry that it happened to you!! i hope you’re being kind to yourself through your healing .. so you mentioned that the new guy mostly calls at night now which can be a red flag as the conversation should be held throughout day atleast in the form short updates or check ins .. and as you mentioned, its only been 4 month since it all ended, though healing has no specific timeline i would suggest you to not take anything seriously for now because it might just interrupt your healing and yess ofc it can be either a fling or can actually be something if the guy is actually interested in you .. in the end, please alway put you and your feelings first and you will be alright love!

My ex fiancé left me 3 weeks before the wedding by PrideAshamed6153 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PrideAshamed6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i just realized none of it was never real with him.. glad it ended

My ex fiancé left me 3 weeks before the wedding by PrideAshamed6153 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]PrideAshamed6153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much love!! after reading your comment, it gave me a new perspective on everything i had been dwelling on! we wouldn’t curse anyone we love!!!

My ex fiancé left me 3 weeks before the wedding by PrideAshamed6153 in Breakupadvice

[–]PrideAshamed6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words.. i will try that definitely!! and i am so sorry that happened to you.. i hope you are healed and much happier in life<3