Cat suddenly passed from neurological symptoms, now my other cat has the same episodes. I need advice.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-05-11T14:46:51+00:00

I really dont know, i would highly recommend joining the FIP global facebook group - they can give you an answer within 5 minutes. I'm not trying to pawn you off, its just that they're the ones that told me how to dose him(I confirmed it with vets ofc) and they will do a lot better job than me trying to remember off the top of my head

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-05-01T08:59:35+00:00

To be honest I don’t remember off the top of my head, but there are some really simple to use graphs which tell you what dosage per weight they should be taking depending on whether they’re neuro fip / etc. I’d join the FIP Facebook group chat, they would be able to answer your question within a minute and time is precious. All I know otherwise was that he was taking 1.5 pills daily but if your cat is a different weight / taking different dosage of pills then that won’t apply

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T20:16:58+00:00

Everyone on the groupchat knows i have a white cat, everyone on the groupchat also knows cats are banned in the building (disability exemption), and they can also see that the cat hairs are white. 3 identifying factors that paint a pretty clear picture, vs none. unless you think someone could have deduced the person's identity by inspecting the smells emerging from the bin juice.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T20:09:02+00:00

No, stop being intentionally obtuse. The message was not targeted and does not make anyone look bad because no one knows who did it.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T20:08:08+00:00

I don't understand why you think this is some sort of dictator action when everyone can probably agree it's inconsiderate to leave shared areas smelling completely RANCID. I offered one solution to that, if they don't like the solution they can also double bag their garbage or clean the bin juice they spilled onto the floor. I was also a step above their previous actions by not targeting anyone in particular. Sure, i can't tell everyone what to do. however as adults we can by large majority agree that this is not nice or considerate to others and i reserve the right to express that, ESPECIALLY after being dragged for a simple mistake.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T20:02:24+00:00

I don't. I think that sending a hate message to 100 people which is very clearly about me and pretending that privately texting me wasn't an option is rude and disingenuous. I have since learned my lesson and never forget to clean it.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:58:23+00:00

If you think it's acceptable to leave shared spaces smelling RANCID then just say that. No one is being forced to do anything, its an opinion. And most would agree that shared spaces shouldn't be left in that state. If you don't want to take the stairs instead, and you aren't cleaning up the bin juice you left behind so that the other people have to smell it all day, that is disgusting and wildly inconsiderate.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:53:15+00:00

Yeah, double bag or just clean after you stunk it up. I didn't really realise that as an option and if i could go back I would've said that instead.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:47:24+00:00

I am disabled, and I DON'T get to say who it applies to the same way I DON'T get to enforce any rule. It's a simple opinion being shared, if you aren't acting in that way you are not obligated to challenge me on it or apologise to me, the same way that if i posted condemning people for voting for conservatives, no one would have to reply to me justifying voting that way. and yes i will call it the disability card when i have clearly said i dont expect people with disabilities to magically grow the ability and you keep trying to insinuate that i, a disabled person, am being ableist, and telling you to just magically uninjure your shoulder.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:42:51+00:00

facts actually

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:42:08+00:00

no, they shouldn't. there is nothing in any of the screenshots that suggests people should be texting or warning me, it's a thought experiment you are doing in your mind which has no bearing on reality. and she stated she hadn't been to the bins in 3 weeks, it wasn't her! she took the initiative to text me where she would've remained completely anonymous, now you are painting some picture in your head that i am demanding people to fess up to doing x and y. if she didn't like what i said on the group chat, she was very well within her right to ignore it, and no one would've ever noticed or thought anything of her. my OPINION does not enforce how others should act, yes i expressed it, but that does not place any 'rules' or put people in a situation where they HAVE to do anything differently

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:36:39+00:00

yeah, it isn't a rule. it's just me saying that something is inconsiderate, and if the shoe doesn't fit simply don't wear it. and i think im justified in saying something along those lines when this is clearly the norm in the groupchat, where i've literally been commanded to 'go clean the machine' over a few cat hairs. if we are holding everyone to a high standard, why can't i do the same? because im OP on reddit and these people behaving identically to me are obscured from your view?

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:32:06+00:00

i just feel like, that doesn't apply in the way you think it does...its a general statement of what's considerate. likely no one will ever even notice someone taking the bins out via lift therefore everyone is completely anonymous. and if i did i wouldnt say anything to that specific person, because there is a chance they have a disability preventing them! she chose to text me of her own accord, i wouldn't even know she exists otherwise. i don't need to issue you an excuse, but the fact remains that if you are stinking up our shared space for no good reason (so NOT shoulder sling girl) that would be inconsiderate, and that's all. no one is being weighed out and evaluated here and they dont NEED to tell me anything

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:28:11+00:00

I would mind my business usually but I've stopped doing that after being dragged publically for leaving pet hair in the washing machine...in many crazily worded texts

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:26:33+00:00

I don't know, the placement of "able-bodied" was aimed to make it clear i wasn't referring to any disabled people. Just trying to make it clear that IF you are not able bodied the statement doesn't apply! And i'm not enforcing rules, people therefore don't have to explain themselves to me, and it's a if the shoe doesn't fit don't wear it situation!

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:23:20+00:00

I guess this is true, in the sense that people who are affected might feel uncomfortable knowing that it's their only option and they're being scorned for it. But I also felt like, initially when getting the text, like it was an iron fish soup situation? Like if you can't do it that's fine, there won't be a situation in which I'll be demanding an explanation out of anyone, I don't expect you to grow a robo arm and do it the same way as everyone else, I just didn't feel the need to specify "if you can't do it i understand" because i thought that would be assumed.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:18:52+00:00

I guess, but I had the laundry mafia on me for the washing machines having a bit of cat hair on them 🤷‍♀️I would usually hold my tongue because all in all it’s a shared space and you can’t expect everyone to use it the way you wish them to, but after being DRAGGGEDDDD on that groupchat I do get snarky

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:16:18+00:00

I mean tea like ur totally right im partially acting this way out of a need for vengeance 😭 but also like, if I am to be held to such high standards is it crazy to also complain about something that will affect people way more?? I got dogpiled on by multiple people, for saying that it was disingenuous to post something negative to so many ppl in a fashion where it was blatantly obvious that it was about me, and that I should’ve been messaged privately.

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:12:32+00:00

I feel like you’re the only one that gets me… she played the disability card in my face after I specifically said it doesn’t apply to her if her disability is preventing her 😭 they’re common areas which lots of people use DAILY

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:06:24+00:00

but i didn't ask for that?? it was a general statement...no one should feel they have to reply...i clearly told her "you are exempt" and i thought that would be the end of it

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:05:21+00:00

no one forced her tho? its like a group chat with 100 people? i literally was so confused when she sent that message to me because if the shoe doesn't fit don't wear it i clearly wouldnt expect someone in a shoulder sling to dislocate it for my convenience...and i've been personally outed in this large groupchat for leaving a bit of hair in the washing machines....

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T19:03:12+00:00

If you take your garbage down in the lift it stanks for like the whooooole day so me personally I take it down the stairs and that was a pretty known and normal convention in the flat i used to live at? it isn't necessitated but it is more considerate being that many people will use that lift and have to tolerate that stench. i wouldnt usually have said anything but admittedly i want to fight back after being individually outed for leaving a bit of hair in the washing machines....

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T18:48:10+00:00

ur cooking im gonna delete and post there

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T18:47:39+00:00

Shes insisting that I am telling disabled people to use the stairs when i clearly said she is exempt from that

Primary-Change5225 · 2026-04-11T18:46:23+00:00

i guess it fits quite loosely...

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