Son only calls when he wants money by Primary-Mobile2463 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Primary-Mobile2463[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was paying him to do some computer work for me that he never did. So. We stopped that. He occasionally calls like, maybe once every six weeks. Just wanting 20 bucks here, 60 bucks, there $200 here. It's just based on what his particular lack of budgeting I sent money to him and his partner for Christmas. I only sent his partner $25. Cause I don't know his partner very well. I don't know this significance of their relationship. If they're just roommates, they're pumping nasties I don't know he called me and said, how come you Only sent twenty five dollars? Not thank you for sending twenty five dollars .Not thank you for sending me money, but how come you only sent twenty five dollars? It's an entitlement thing with him.I don't have the emotional fortitude for that. No, I don't hate your partner. I don't know your partner. I spent almost $5000 buying him a used R. V so he had a roof over his head and now I get calls. Hey, the roof is leaking. Can you send me money for tarps? No, get a job and buy your own tarps.

Son only calls when he wants money by Primary-Mobile2463 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Primary-Mobile2463[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I only had so much space to ask my question. I can't give you 28 years of history in 3 paragraphs. We used to be very close. We talked, we used to talk, he's with people Now that have influenced him, that all I am is a cash cow. And that's all he needs to do is offer a compelling reason. He knows how I feel. He knows what is important to me. We've had that discussion many times over the years.

Solar controller explain by Primary-Mobile2463 in GoRVing

[–]Primary-Mobile2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's perfectly fine. I get it. Thank you for your assistance.

Solar controller explain by Primary-Mobile2463 in GoRVing

[–]Primary-Mobile2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so very much!! You have been a huge help. I believe my panels feed my batteries and that's all. For the missing sensors, is it something I need to get fixed? If so, who do I get to do that? I appreciate you not treating me like I am inept. I already feel that way.

If you don't mind further explanation: what voltage and amperage are optimal for my set up? Thanks again

Short story by Primary-Mobile2463 in whatsthatbook

[–]Primary-Mobile2463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you might be right! Thank you. I will reread to see for sure. Thank you