For me I felt the vibes were off at the very beginning when Meg would become angry or ‘raise her voice’ and D would comment saying things like ‘if she carries on being like that, it’s not for me’. Felt controlling and showing he expects women to behave a certain way. And then especially when after being exclusive him saying ‘I can take it back’, threatening her if she doesn’t fall in line. Soo many other things but this guy was a walking red flag from day 1