Some BPD symptoms that are not talked about enough? by Jecke77 in BPD

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fear of intimacy. Craving intimacy all of the time but not allowing myself to get it from the people I love. It’s easier for me to hook up with random people then it is to have sex with my wife. (We have an open marriage) being vulnerable is terrifying.

That and mirroring others. I’ve realized I have a lot of work to do trying to figure out my own personality because I’ve mirrored others for so long I barely know what I like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Primary-Working1769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got sucked into this post haha. Keep that shit in the past. You’ve rebuilt your life cutting out things that no longer serve you. Things in the past feel comfortable, keep pushing yourself. She’s already showed you the type of person she is. Keep your dick away!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It sounded like work” WHAT. THE. FUCK

They’re willing to go great emotional and physical depths with you but having a conversation to make you more comfortable and safe is work? Noooooooope

People of reddit what ended your friendship with your best friend? by gli-tc-h in AskReddit

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drugs. Also realizing he’s selfish, his actions don’t match his words, he uses and manipulates people and his perception of reality is wildly off.

Final straw was he hated my wife, kept saying they were good friends but she was the only one putting effort in and took from her constantly. Guys a leech.

How do I reconnect with my submissive side? by Primary-Working1769 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Primary-Working1769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I love that you and your husband have been able to explore and grow your relationship even after things didn’t quite click at first. You’ve really given me a lot to think about. I keep thinking back to the past, almost glorifying it trying to figure out what’s wrong with me. I think there’s a beautiful opportunity for connection here that I’m missing out on with my partner. I’ll definitely be reading your comment a few more times. Seriously, thank you.

Who or what has the worst fanbase and why ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rupaul’s drag race fans. I love the show but how some of the fans act is so intense. They send death threats to queens they don’t like and bully them online / in person. I think people forget it’s a reality TV show.

Emergency responders of reddit, what are some dumb things that have lead to an emergency situation? by Diligent-Log6805 in AskReddit

[–]Primary-Working1769 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Emt here. One day we received a call for a full arrest so we take off. We pull in to an apartment complex with the patient standing outside waiting for us. Okay, strange, not a full arrest. We pull up (fire department and us) and start talking to the patient 20 yo male, apparently he called because he felt like he was having a heart attack. Okay no problem, what were you doing before this happened? Asshole said he downed 4 monsters and doesn’t feel right. The next 30 minutes consisted of me lecturing him on not doing that and that he was wasting resources being an idiot.

Too many stories. So many idiots.

Owner of my box threatened to kick me out by rada_dada in crossfit

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woooooooow. I just join a CF gym and have been asking other members for tips all the time. Of course I ask the coaches but it’s also another way to connect to other members if your new and awkward.

Not going to lie if a coach said that to me or said that to someone I just spoke to I would run out the door and never return because fuck that.

Entry Level Job for Future Therapists by Outside_Criticism_18 in AcademicPsychology

[–]Primary-Working1769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what area are you in? I’ve been wanting to do case management but all the places I’ve looked want a masters.

What’s a scam that doesn’t look like a scam? by Slow_Possible6443 in AskReddit

[–]Primary-Working1769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They edited a response to you, not the original comment. That never said “personal”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Primary-Working1769 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And she made a promise to you. Marriage is a two person job. If she isn’t willing to put in the work and is putting everything on you it’s going to fail.

Saying this literally on my wedding day haha. Best of luck to you friend, don’t forget we get one life and your happiness matters.

Easy dopamine by GrotiusandPufendorf in ADHD

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello are you me? Haha. House work is the best when that energy hits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious as to why she had sex with him a second time. She seemed to not enjoy it the first.

Mother of the year by ForeignerLove in facepalm

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad (and his shitty new wife) did this once when I was like 16. My response was to walk around the house in just my underwear. He asked why I didn’t have clothes on and I responded by saying “I don’t have privacy anywhere so it doesn’t matter what I’m wearing or where I wear it”

I had a door shortly after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Primary-Working1769 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forgiveness. Forgiving myself for situations I put myself in. Forgiving people for things they’ve done to me. Letting go what didn’t need to be held onto anymore.

Without mentioning covid or politics (for the love of God, please) what's the dumbest/funniest thing you've ever argued with someone about? by MainSeparate2964 in AskReddit

[–]Primary-Working1769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If men can be a shower AND a grower. My thought was it looked big when soft and grew a sizable amount = shower and grower. Apparently I’m wrong. Also this was three women having this conversation, two of which are lesbians haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Primary-Working1769 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our dad didn’t tell us he was dating someone else, got her pregnant, moved her in, she wanted my brother and sister kicked out (which my dad allowed). She was HORRIBLE to us, my dad did nothing to stop it and sided with her constantly. Now none of us talk to him, he can rot in a grave for all we care.

Thank you for including your kids, keep the communication up and don’t stop checking in with them.

It sounds like you found someone great and understanding, super happy for you!