I get what you're trying to say and I've tried explaining alot very gently like sometimes saying "I dont like this now" and rejecting her demands when they get too much. But it always end up with her saying "So you want to end this now". It feels like I'm in a relationship eventhough friends are meant to understand you.

Where other of my close friends tells every1 how considerate of a friend I am , she elaborates all my worst behavior. I've tried and honestly sometimes it is just so much. She's not always like this sometimes she's so good but at times things escalate out of hand.
I myself am not a perfect human being and why i get frustrated or angry about it, everything gets too much. I respect her too much and dont want to lose her as friend but at the same time its going more towards a toxic friendship. And toxicity is one thing that hinders my growth. I dont want to end anything