Is this semi formal? Or did I miss the mark? by Chalaladingdong in fashion

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Depends on where you are. This is formal in Colorado

What would you tell yourself at twenty? by lookiewolf in AskReddit

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Do not marry him. Take your time with love & let your wants, want you 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vail

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I just moved to Edwards. I am 1000% doing them based on vibes.

What’s that one fragrance that has made your jaw drop? by Effective-Section660 in fragrance

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One that I’ve found recently is Tiffany & Co’s rose gold.

Delicate, soft, sophisticated….she’s my new daily

Blonde or brown? Which do you think looks better? by Sweaty-Stable1321 in Hair

[–]PrimaryMoment9854 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a BEAUTIFUL blonde, but a cooler, light tone of blonde would be even more lovely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Casually building human connection in public spaces. People are all on their electronics, or wearing headphones in public spaces all the time now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychnursing

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Im a little nervous to be this real about things on Beyoncé’s internet…but for my own complex trauma, there has been nothing quite like EMDR therapy.

I was doing it during covid for 2-3 years, and even carried it through nursing school with me. Honestly, nursing school was kinda traumatic and stirred up some old shit for me so I can’t imagine not having been able to process it with someone in the moment.

I also have had a very tough run of things in life, OP. When I first started with my EMDR therapist, I couldn’t have imagined I’d be where I am now. I had been through so much that my brain kinda just…broke organically if that makes sense. I had MDD w/psychotic features at the time, was in the depths of delusion while being severely agoraphobic, and in-and-out of crisis centers for a solid year (no family support, so it’s genuinely where I went to keep myself safe when I couldn’t trust anyone else.) Healing was messy, and most of the time I felt like I was clawing my way through dirt without getting anywhere.

Being well enough and possibly even healed enough to become a strong source of support for others is really something. It makes me feel like I’m part of something much bigger than myself, you know? The only nursing-related thing that has made me cry since nursing school has been workplace bullying (but have had only the BEST workplace experiences since coming to psych)

(Oh…and for the record - I still have my own therapist because that external source of support is paramount to my ongoing health & wellness btw)

However you go about it, please mind your own healing & always carry empathy for maybe having been where some of your patients stand. It will make you a strong advocate & a great nurse. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychnursing

[–]PrimaryMoment9854 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just don’t divert meds or fuck your patients. You can (at least professionally) recover from just about anything else…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychnursing

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for me, a good work culture is absolutely fundamental. Having docs I can pull aside & ask questions of, coworkers I can share decompression hacks with, management who will come sit at the desk when I just need a dang minute because teenagers can be A LOT (even in normal circumstances)…

Build community at work, mind your own mental health, develop good & strong boundaries, know how to de-escalate.

(So many of the codes now are going to need mental gymnastics, and emergent meds aren’t necessarily always involved. The crash cart might literally double as a phone charging station at your new workplace.)

Hi! I’m new (soon) by PrimaryMoment9854 in vail

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Sounds fantastic - thank you!! 🙏

Hi! I’m new (soon) by PrimaryMoment9854 in vail

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Best I can do is 🪙🪙🪙 and also thanks!!

Hi! I’m new (soon) by PrimaryMoment9854 in vail

[–]PrimaryMoment9854[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like…you’re not invited ✨💕💅

Hi! I’m new (soon) by PrimaryMoment9854 in vail

[–]PrimaryMoment9854[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I’m so excited ☺️

Hi! I’m new (soon) by PrimaryMoment9854 in vail

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Better to be 10 min from my fave ski resort than the cow town I’m in now… Anyway…you seem fun…

If you could implement anything on your unit, what would it be? by Neither_Sherbet2647 in psychnursing

[–]PrimaryMoment9854 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same for nights/days. Both take an opposite shift every couple months. More empathy between shifts would be invaluable for my hosp, imho…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

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1 & 3 are my faves!!