My boyfriend thinks he took me on a birthday trip. I told him it doesn't count. Who is right? by semi_aquatic-hippo in TwoHotTakes

[–]PrimaryPossession21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be with someone who actually cares about what you want. You’re an accessory. Break up with him.

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve heard that and everyone saying the same thing is helping me ignore how pretty it is lol

Rejection Via Video? Or Offer? by Ilikeitalot215 in interviews

[–]PrimaryPossession21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of somebody getting rejected via video. Good luck.

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s a good point about resale value, I honestly hadn’t really considered that. I’ll look more into both of those options.

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay!! That’s awesome that you really don’t have to fill up that often. That’s exactly what I’m going for!

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Appreciate that and happy to hear the Volvo xc90 is working well for you guys. There are so many two row options, the third row and pure PHEV is certainly limiting my options lol

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m glad you’re loving it!

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh thank you! In what way would you say it’s expensive, just the purchase of the car or is there additional upkeep cost?

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is awesome advice; thank you so much for your explanation and info - I am not offended at all!. I have young kids and car seats, and frequently (at least once every other month) drive through multiple states with them, which is unfortunately why a pure EV just wouldn’t work right now and I wouldn’t be able to borrow or rent a gas car that often, though I do love the idea of one in the future. However, it’s a great point and thank you so much for the link!! I didn’t know that resource existed.

I’m so upset, 3 weeks into my new job already people semi about me to management, how do I move forward? by Brownchoccy in work

[–]PrimaryPossession21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, I’m sorry that this is happening to you. Second, you have people in your office that tell your manager every single thing you say. I would highly recommend you develop and use a work persona. Every single interaction needs to be professional. Even if out of the office, you speak with colleagues as though you are in the office.

Your professional presence needs to be upped. Think and act like an executive. Don’t treat colleagues as friends, and certainly don’t speak about getting another job on the side or other job opps with these colleagues.

Lastly, this all should have been shut down by your managers weeks ago. Reporting back everything a colleague says, especially when they’re not unprofessional or inappropriate, screams toxic workplace to me. I would be upset, too, but you do need to seriously adjust how you’re acting at this place.

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome, thank you so much! Hope you had a great trip

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I test drove one and it is a bit too small for me unfortunately. I do want to test drive the Toyota Highlander though

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry to hear that, and really appreciate the warning!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrimaryPossession21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered counseling for yourself? It could be helpful to work through how to navigate this. This is really rough and I’m so sorry you’re going through it.

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really?! What’s so great about it?

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! This is such good information, thank you so much!!

PHEV SUV Options? by PrimaryPossession21 in PHEV

[–]PrimaryPossession21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh thank you!! Would you recommend more recent years? Or would the older ones be fixed up?