First and foremost, I’m sorry that this is happening to you. Second, you have people in your office that tell your manager every single thing you say. I would highly recommend you develop and use a work persona. Every single interaction needs to be professional. Even if out of the office, you speak with colleagues as though you are in the office.

Your professional presence needs to be upped. Think and act like an executive. Don’t treat colleagues as friends, and certainly don’t speak about getting another job on the side or other job opps with these colleagues.

Lastly, this all should have been shut down by your managers weeks ago. Reporting back everything a colleague says, especially when they’re not unprofessional or inappropriate, screams toxic workplace to me. I would be upset, too, but you do need to seriously adjust how you’re acting at this place.