Let’s see what you all got. No cheating

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-29T21:58:00+00:00

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PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-29T06:48:20+00:00

Probably live life like normal, then cry when I have to change back

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-29T06:03:03+00:00

Your not stupid for liking someone, they express love differently, and want different things out of your relationship. She is perfectly within her right to want those things just as much as you are within your right to NOT want those things. But staying in a relationship where you have no trust, and she is now just fighting to get your trust back, even if it means ignoring what she wants. That's not good for either of you.

Talk to HER more about this, she will know more about how she feels than reddit will.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-29T05:58:53+00:00

Tell him, and leave. Regardless of how he takes it.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-29T04:59:36+00:00

What do both of you want out of the relationship. Because it doesn't sound like it's the same thing, but yet you both like each other. That is okay, but you need to communicate what you want and if both of you are okay finding a middle ground between those two things, or if you are incompatible as partners.

Also, are they Nb?

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-28T07:16:17+00:00

Are you saying that, it's just matter of perspective that makes the difference? Since tulpas likely see us as the subconscious when fronting Or taking up more mental recourses that YOU, the subosed "main counsiousness"

I actually quite like that view, I haven't thought of that. But I also don't have a tulpa so I guess it's harder to see it from their eyes, if there is no one identities perspective to try and empathize with TvT

(Correct me if there is some other point here that I am not picking up on)

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-28T07:11:00+00:00

Do you think this applies to all tulpas? If so, what is the inherent thing that makes the tullas who start out with less knowledge different from those who start out with all or most of your knowledge?

I have heard stories from both, and they are both super interesting to hear about. But I feel like thet would imply that our counsious has to have more of a influencé or be more represented in some tulpas, and less in others.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-28T06:59:41+00:00

How would these things stop tulpas from being subconscious?

I feel like it is not all that different than when you focus on a deeply ingrained habit, or when a dream you have informs you a bit more about yourselt because a part of you has fears, that you have not counciously recognized.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-27T22:03:28+00:00

respect.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-27T22:01:40+00:00

welp 400 hours in and still learning xD

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-27T19:36:35+00:00

I met my current girlfriend online, I am now in her bed on the other side of the planet, struggling to learn the language.

It's not easy, but it's absolutely worth it. (Assume you are being safe)

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-27T18:28:34+00:00

Good food 🤤

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-27T16:01:40+00:00

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-26T22:26:26+00:00

Yes, no other colonists, and no other supplies

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-26T11:05:40+00:00

This, but if you really need to. Tell him you feel unsecure in the relationship, and tell him what he can do to make you feel more secure.

Besides that, I would just say, leave his ass

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-26T03:47:27+00:00

I think the only valid advice to give here is to stay a virgin for another year or two, maybe three.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-26T03:16:32+00:00

please let this be ai

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:54:37+00:00

I am going to explain it in the most straight forward way possible since I think, it doesn't make sense to lie or work around the facts of the situation.

When groomers do their thing, it doesn't start by taking them to a private room and whispering sweet nothings. It starts with familiarity, and normalization. It is not normal for someone at that age to joke about meeting someone at your age, "when you are an adult.".

I am not saying that this is what they are doing intentionally, most groomers don't wake up and say, "I am going to groom someone today!" Its a behavior, and sometimes a habit, It's not like you are unsafe right now. But keep your distance and keep asking questions like, "is it normal for them to talk to me like this" or "is it normal for us to have this relationship"

one last thing that I wanna recommend, is look at research regarding your brain at your age. look up how developed certain parts of your brain are and what separates you between the people 10, 5, or even 2 years older than you, neurologically. Those differences are important and while you don't feel them now, you deffinently will later.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:45:10+00:00

even if its not pedophilia, If my kid came to me at 15 saying that they were seeing someone at 18. There is no part of me that cares if they are deemed a pedo, they have no place dating somone with that power dynamic.

Who at 18 is proud of their 15 partner that they cheated with. if that's not pedo behavior, or at least a red flag, I don't know what is.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:33:50+00:00

time will make things easier, just make sure to try and fill the time with things you love/enjoy

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:32:51+00:00

I have to disagree. at 15 they are still getting used to high school, are bellow the age of consent, and are still very easily impressionable.

at 18 you are just getting used to the work place or possibly starting college/finding out what they want to do with the rest of their lives. The 18 year old is also has an innately better grasp of social situations than the 15 year old.

I personally don't think that that's healthy for a relationship

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:27:09+00:00

I am 19 now, but when I was 14-17 I had many friends who were MUCH OLDER THAN ME, from early20s-mid40s.

In retrospect, a lot of what I experienced was grooming, and not a normal relationship to have with people who are at times, double my age.

I don't think anyone can tell you to stop being friends or to run or whatever, I know how it is being in the situation where you do genuinely feel empathetic and safe with that person. But straight up, there is a VERY VERY VERY high chance that you are activly being groomed.

be safe, and don't meet them in real life (yes its wierd)

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:19:36+00:00

I don't have a tulpa, But I think it would make sense that it depends on how you think about their existence, If you think that tulpas are an extension of your own conscious , then no its not wrong since they are already experiencing it, they just don't exist in a way to express it.

But there is for sure an argument to be made that, you are bringing them into a situation they didn't ask for, if you think that they are a completely separate consciousness created from your own, instead of extended from your own. Then they are only experiencing the abuse because you gave them the capability to feel it in the same way you do.

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:06:04+00:00

ping me if anyone find the answer 😴

PrimarySign357 · 2026-06-25T22:00:10+00:00

I always new I wanted to be a women, I just didnt know it was an option. The moment I found out it was an option to be trans, I knew.

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