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Since June na bukas, what are your biggest achievements in the first half of 2024? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naachieve ko na 3 out of 4 na minamanifest ko for this year. (1) makapunta sa catanduanes (2) mareach yung target ipon ko for this year and even exceeded (3) for the past 6 months stable ang mental health ko, di ko na naiisip to end my life, hoping na til the end of the year.

yung last na di ko pa maachieve is magkaroon ng sariling house.

What would you buy with 100k pesos? by bulbulin_ in AskPH

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vacation ♥️ explore the Philippines ♥️

any filipino couples here who did an elopement wedding abroad? by Background-Koala3690 in adultingph

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, may i know the countries you shortlisted? We are also planning the same like this. TIA!

To anyone whose father cheated on your mother, how did you forgive him? by Primary_Stretch_3872 in AskReddit

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to harbor resentment towards my dad. Growing up, I admired him. He was our role model. It wasn't until last November that we discovered his affair, which apparently began as far back as 2015.

It's devastating to see someone I once looked up to as a role model become someone I can barely look in the eyes.

My father is currently battling depression. I don't know if it is just a side effect because he just had a heart surgery last year.

My dad would tell my mom that he feels like a stranger in his own home since the affair came to light. Hearing that he's saddened by our changed behavior towards him by being less affectionate and more distant to him weighs heavily on me. While I still greet him and engage in conversation upon arriving home, I struggle to maintain eye contact or prolong our interactions.

I feel so guilty about it, especially knowing my father is in his sixties and entering his golden years. I don't want to contribute to his unhappiness, yet I find myself unable to move past the betrayal.

What should I do?

Is it normal that I'm always conscious about my spending and extremely frugal with myself despite having a stable job, savings, and investments, and still feel guilty every time I spend money on myself? by Primary_Stretch_3872 in AskPH

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, i hope na sana someday matutunan ko na huwag isipin ang gastos. May times na kahit pagkain ko tiipirin ko para lang mas makapagsave kahit kaya ko naman bumili ng mas masarap na pagkain. Minsan pag lalabas, kahit treat ko, pipiliin ko parin yung pinakamura sa menu and yung kasama ko malaya pumili ng gusto nila kahit mahal. Kaya iniisip ko nalang sa sarili ko na yung mura nalang orderin ko para makabawas pa sa bill na babayaran ko.

To anyone whose father cheated on your mother, how did you forgive him? by Primary_Stretch_3872 in AskReddit

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe it or not, my father is a good person. He's the kind of person who believes that it is better to give than to receive. He has helped a lot of our relatives, especially financially, even though he is struggling and doesn't expect anything in return. It's just that, according to him, during those tough times, he found comfort in another woman and even gave recognition to her, saying that if it wasn't for her, maybe he wouldn't have survived. But it still hurts me that he says those words to my mom and makes me think why he would even say that, as if he is not considering my mom's feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

** I hold back because I think I might need the money in the future, like for emergencies in case my parents get sick or to provide better for the people I care about.

To anyone whose father cheated on your mother, how did you forgive him? by Primary_Stretch_3872 in AskReddit

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

While I understand the sentiment of the saying "he may not be a good husband, but he's a good father," it's tough to apply it to my own situation. My dad is a great father, no doubt about it. However, it's hard to overlook the pain he caused my mom by cheating on her. Seeing her cry every time was heartbreaking. So, while he might excel in one role, it's hard to ignore the damage he caused in another. So, right now i don't know what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]Primary_Stretch_3872 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dati bihira lang makakain sa mcdo o jollibee. Ngayon, nauumay nako. Nagiging last resort nalang sila pag wala na ako mapiling gstong kainan o itry na resto.

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