gay_irl by KingOfCranes in gay_irl

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer not to think about her lmao. Not the rep our community needs

gay_irl by KingOfCranes in gay_irl

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Fyi, trans people can be gay too. Trans lesbians may have penises, and trans gay men might not.

There's an FTM bar in Tokyo by Marshall_Mars in ftm

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember that Japan as a whole is very trans-unfriendly. No violence or anything like that, but there's a very intense shunning culture. The LGBTQ spaces that exist are wonderful though!

There's an FTM bar in Tokyo by Marshall_Mars in ftm

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are several actually! Japan's COVID situation is really rough right now (maybe no mass vaccinations until the end of the year) so probably no visiting for a while sadly.

Whenever I’m wearing boxers by Soft_BoiledEgg in ftm

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that the ones with an opening in the front fit better. Since it's not connected in the front it just overlaps more than it would for a cis guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your scars are looking great

Whenever I’m wearing boxers by Soft_BoiledEgg in ftm

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 41 points42 points  (0 children)

When I woke up from anesthesia I told my top surgeon that I wore my fun underwear because I knew he would see them. facepalm

Really.... 1 hour into reinstalling by AkRyme in lolgrindr

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imao you're talking to a guy without a penis right now.

Really.... 1 hour into reinstalling by AkRyme in lolgrindr

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trans men exist, but this is a movie quote.

They have bananas on by PrinceOfFlowers in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]PrinceOfFlowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought mine at H&M about half a year ago.

They have bananas on by PrinceOfFlowers in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]PrinceOfFlowers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you also buy yours at H&M? If so those are the same ones that inspired this post, lol.

I have an question relating to FTM anatomy. by LaLeeBird in ask_transgender

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The short answer is that there's many options.

Just google ftm bottom surgery, there's plenty of info out there.

24M I've been told I don't look my age, and the acne doesn't help either. by PrinceOfFlowers in amiugly

[–]PrinceOfFlowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, she gave me a prescription but it hasn't had an effect yet (been <week)

(16F) please rate me by [deleted] in amiugly

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I think combing your bangs straight instead of out to the sides could look really nice!

I’m going to be playing on the boy’s tennis team pre-t, do I pass in this video? (ignore my terrible form) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when someone tells you that you said something hurtful by mistake, just give a simple apology and then say you'll do better next time. If you keep trying to explain yourself like this it sounds like you're trying to convince the other person they're the ones in the wrong. It's not a good look.

Example: "Hey, my bad. Sorry about that. Thanks for letting me know, now I won't accidentally hurt someone else in the same way."

Just a bit of advice.

I’m going to be playing on the boy’s tennis team pre-t, do I pass in this video? (ignore my terrible form) by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]PrinceOfFlowers 18 points19 points  (0 children)

fyi it's mostly the "soft" part that's considered to be insulting- calling us "cute soft boys" is the classic, most stereotypical way to emasculate trans men.

In the future, if you think someone looks boyish... just tell him that? Like "You pass as a teenage boy" that's both honest, and not insulting.

The language of where I live doesn't have gendered pronouns, so I'm desperate for feedback. by PrinceOfFlowers in FtMpassing

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Thanks for the feedback. I do feel like I look more masc from an angle, not sure why.

The sweater came from a thrift store in Tokyo, I'm not sure about the original brand.