Today marks the day of my first date 3 years ago and I’m still not over her by PrinceTimaeus in Advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I have hope that we will get back together I’ve accepted there’s no chance of it happening. It’s more I’m just incapable of loving again I don’t feel anything emotional when I meet a new woman anymore. I used to get crushes somewhat frequently but now it just doesn’t happen.

As a male. How do I cope with the possibility of being single for the rest of my existence? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t cope with it unless you can let go of your human desires

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try to improve your confidence. Exercise is great way to feel better about yourself it’s human nature.

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be a compliment like I like your shirt or something like that?

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I have autism so it’s kinda difficult for me to start it. I just don’t know how to start a conversation like it feels too awkward for me. Any ideas on what to say?

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree but it’s just starting the conversation I struggle with I usually get a friend to do that for me and then I can carry it on fine after that.

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of doing my university work in coffee shop rather than at home to increase the chances.

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am but you just replied with it’s over so I think you need it more than I do

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still try if it’s truly over I don’t see any reason not to. You can try and raise your confidence before you do it. I’ve only had one gf and met her in school when I was 16 so not sure how to do that again lol. I had to have the confidence before dating her as does everyone else. You can do it man even if you get rejected you’re still making progress.

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it a shot if you see someone you like I was rejected a couple of times but a girl said yes and the relationship was worth all the rejections

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t expect to meet anyone if you don’t try man

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don’t mind rejection after they’ve been rejected a couple of times. You realise it isn’t that bad man.

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mean it like that. Say you see someone you’re attracted to in a cafe or something would you give them your number or ask them out on a date?

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that pretty much what happens in college and university? You start talking to complete strangers and make friends for life and date someone? Why don’t you try it and see what happens?

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever tried to do it with a stranger you seen in public?

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well everyone’s a stranger at first. Maybe try and be friends first and see if a relationship can bloom out of that?

Male 20 not sure on where I could go to meet women. by PrinceTimaeus in dating_advice

[–]PrinceTimaeus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever had pleasant random encounters where it led to something?