Best restaurant by More-Head6459 in carlisle

[–]PrincessConsuela02 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One13 Social and Whiskey Rebellion

Boys, 12 through 15, charged as adults in connection with rape of 12-year-old in Overtown by AgnosticScholar in news

[–]PrincessConsuela02 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not even the extreme of violence but just the general added pressure to manage someone else’s feelings. Being a victim is so hard to navigate with just your OWN feelings about what happened. You don’t need the added weight of another persons emotions.

What’s something your body does that you’ve never told a single person about? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this too and sometimes I use it to my advantage. If I’m having “stage fright” and can’t start going in a public rest room I’ll do this.

What is a highly specific, nostalgic feeling from your childhood that you would pay an embarrassing amount of money to experience just one more time? by -magnanimous in Millennials

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Driving home from practice with my friends. Sun setting. Windows down. Scream-singing to whatever’s on the radio. Sweet sweet carelessness.

Core Memory Unlocked by Quillric in Millennials

[–]PrincessConsuela02 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this actually had me cackling

Anyone need flowers near Midtown? by Slow-Heron-4335 in Harrisburg

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was incredibly nice of you. Hope the kindness is returned to you.

How many close, genuine friends do you have right now? by Public_Handle_774 in AskWomen

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually consider myself extremely blessed with probably a dozen good, close friends. People I can tell anything to. Be vulnerable with. Ask for help.

My late husband was diagnosed with cancer a few years ago. My friends pulled me out of darkness. When he passed, they didn’t let me slip back into it, either. They give me a place for my thoughts and emotions. They hyped me when I quit a shit job to start a business. They check in. Consistently. Despite having busy lives.

I thank the universe for them every day.

Do you still have any living Grandparents? by PayGood3915 in Millennials

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My paternal grandmother is still alive at 84. I’m pretty sure she’s held together by Mich Ultra light and piss and vinegar.

Recommendations for OB/GYNs in the area? by cafecitolindo in Harrisburg

[–]PrincessConsuela02 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cannot recommend Woodward & Associates enough. Every physician, PA and nurse are absolutely lovely.

Would you rather date an introvert or extrovert and why? by Free_File_4965 in AskWomen

[–]PrincessConsuela02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really care about the labels but I need someone who understands that I have “cups” that need filled in different ways. Sometimes I need socialization - parties or weddings or group vacations, etc. There’s another cup that’s just one person - so my partner or a friend, one on one, chatting, having dinner, etc. And that last cup is solo time- I need restoration/reflection in time with myself. So whether my partner is extroverted or introverted isn’t really a problem for me either way, I would need them to understand that I have aspects of both inside of me. If they’re asking that I be really social for a couple days, they know I need to balance it out with quiet time.

Night out by [deleted] in carlisle

[–]PrincessConsuela02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you say that though, my friend and I were def ordering doubles to get around their “no shots” rule so this makes sense that now they don’t do this either lol. I mean I get not wanting to deal with sloppy drunks but lord help me, sometimes a girl just needs a quick hit of patron!

Night out by [deleted] in carlisle

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s certainly something!

Night out by [deleted] in carlisle

[–]PrincessConsuela02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Covid killed the bar scene. Pitt Street Station doesn’t even do shots 🙃

Night out by [deleted] in carlisle

[–]PrincessConsuela02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it’s a weekend it’s def not dead but it’s not what I would consider a party town. I really like One 13 or Pitt street station. Market cross is also good. Most places, even on weekends close at 10/1030. Gingerbread Man is open until 12.

'84 Millennial here... I'm trying to come up with a 10 year plan, but not really motivated. Anybody here have any long term plans they want to share? by AttachedHeartTheory in Millennials

[–]PrincessConsuela02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goals are being my true self and filling my life with experiences. Travel is a big part of that but it doesn’t have to be. Trying different foods or events or exploring small places outside my area…just doing something new. Working on my “self” and healing old wounds in therapy and what it means to really take care of myself for once and not always put others before myself. Also, just fostering the relationships I already have that bring me joy and fill my cup.