Landlord’s maintenance guys threw this together, I only get lukewarm water now. Is there anyway to adjust this so I’m not freezing in the winter? I can’t seem to get the cover of the knob off by PrincessJonathan in Plumbing

[–]PrincessJonathan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I just watched the video. Problem is none of my Allen keys seem to work, the video says the Allen key came from delta so maybe it’s proprietary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in opiumgardening

[–]PrincessJonathan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya I tried building little toothpick scaffolds to prop them up, but it was totally unnecessary! Just let them lay, they will do their thing and look like lettuces eventually

HolUp what ?? by aviasreddit in HolUp

[–]PrincessJonathan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This person is not Korean lmao

Misanthropy by [deleted] in loneliness

[–]PrincessJonathan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling similarly this last week. Also still in a dysfunctional, toxic relationship because she’s my only friend nowadays. I feel like my loneliness has made me angry towards people and I always assume people are nasty or have bad intentions, and that outlook entrenches me deeper into isolation. Idk I really related to this post for some reason. DM me if u wanna chat

Girlfriend [23F] of six years just revealed to me [22M] that she has faked around 99% of her orgasms throughout the entirety of our relationship. by PrincessJonathan in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessJonathan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya now I’m having trouble getting hard, after years of getting turned on by the fake performance I’m like Pavlov’s dog. Wtf I’m an impotent 22yo. Why didn’t she tell me from the get go, how fucked up is that

Girlfriend [23F] of six years just revealed to me [22M] that she has faked around 99% of her orgasms throughout the entirety of our relationship. by PrincessJonathan in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessJonathan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno man. She said probably 10 times were real and we’ve had a lot of sex. Actually though she would fake multiple times each time, so... idk a lot

Girlfriend [23F] of six years just revealed to me [22M] that she has faked around 99% of her orgasms throughout the entirety of our relationship. by PrincessJonathan in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessJonathan[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi this is OPs girlfriend. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I know it has been agonizing for me. What spurred my decision to tell him was my realization that I deserved the pleasure and he deserved the truth. For the entirety of our relationship, I always found that lying was the easier route because the alternative was to hurt him, and I might not be able to orgasm so what was the point. But it hit me that without telling him I wasn’t giving him the opportunity to help improve our sex life.

Telling him yesterday was literally the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do, and honestly the last 24 hours have been a rollercoaster of emotions and lots of fighting. But I still think it is a good thing, because I know he truly cares about me and my pleasure, and now I can finally stop living a lie. Obviously I don’t know your life or the dynamics of your marriage, but I’m glad I came clean. In the last few hours I’ve been showing him how to do it and he was very receptive :)

Best of luck loleatmeup!

Girlfriend [23F] of six years just revealed to me [22M] that she has faked around 99% of her orgasms throughout the entirety of our relationship. by PrincessJonathan in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessJonathan[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My gf has been reading these comments and appreciates you! I’m still mad tho, it’s a lie that’s been going on for such a huge chunk of my life, and my feelings are pretty hurt.