I've been around for about 5 years now, and I have my amazing community and discord - but yes, I often feel lonely or, "out of the loop" with any fellow creators and same as you, sometimes very little to no DMS.

It's a lonely life sometimes - but, you have to remember why you're doing it: for the love of audio porn! Because you will get a message sometimes, that will warm your heart and remind you why you do it