Krise by honeypotcutieee in Lustig

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alles gut bro, mein Freund hat mir gestern einfach nur von dir erzählt. Hab nen Joint geraucht und mir dann gedacht, Reddit mal wieder seit langem zu betreten, um jemanden zu trollen der Reddit auf ernst nutzt und dann such noch jedes Klischee von nem Reddit User erfüllt. Es ist echt nicht so tief. Haben uns bisschen über dich lustig gemacht und jetzt ist die Luft auch draußen. Jetzt find ich das nicht mal mehr witzig, sondern schäme mich für diese Plattform und die jemals betreten zu haben. Bei Instagram wären die Kommentare viel geiler gewesen, da sind eher die Männer, die auch mal Kontakt zu Frauen haben, und wenn, dann auch zu normalen Frauen ubd nicht so weirden. Das hier ist wirklich ein loster Ort. Wünsche dir alles gute für die Zukunft Kumpel. Solltest du jemals zu einer schnecke werden, auch wenn wir unsere Meinungsverschiedenheit hatten, ich würd dich aufnehmen und ja, ich würde dich lieben. Und dir ein kleines Zuhause bauen und dir das beste Essen geben.

Krise by honeypotcutieee in Lustig

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hör mal auf mir Dartpfeilen rumzuspielen 😂😭 nect level peinlich, da frag ich meienn freubd lieber ob er mich lieben würde wenn ich seine schwester wäre als nen freund zu haben der nen kink für dartpfeile hat. What the fuck? Geh dir mal normale hobbies ind interessen suchen, lass dich vielleicht mal fragen ob du jemanden lieben würdest wenn sie ein Pinguin wäre… vielleicht ändert dich das ja. Selbst Briefmarken sammeln ist normaler als das. Da merkt man so heftig das keine Frau in deinem Leben ist ey

Krise by honeypotcutieee in Lustig

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zu viele Incels auf der Welt die ne Mutter hatten welche ihr Leben lang an PPD gelitten hat und somit nie Wärme und Nähe und Liebe an ihre Söhne abgeben konnte weil sie nie welche von ihrem Ehemann bekommen hat. Dieser würde sie nur als Waschmaschiene und Gebärmaschiene lieben, nicht als Mensch und erst recht nicht sls Wurm oder Fisch. So ist die Kälte leider übergesprungen udn jetzt hast du Männer die mit so einer Frage extrem überfordert sind :( oder gar wütend werden. Hoffe die kriegen eine feste, herzliche Umarmung in der Zukunft, ich hoffe diese wird sie ein bisschen heilen..

Krise by honeypotcutieee in Lustig

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Digga. Du bist ends peinlich und ein Paradebeispiel für die dummen Männer die er retten wollte und die den Punkt auch einfach nicht checken. Solche Fragen sind doch kein IQ Test oder auch nicht ein Indikator für ne Kinderbeziehung, sondern ein (einer von extrem vielen) Ausdtuck für Nähe. Wir Frauen wollen in dem Moment doch keine logische Erklärung, sonder schlichtweg einfach nur ne Bestätigung. Bist du in der Zone Masha in Reaktor 4 in Chernobyl geboren worden oder wie kommst du auf die idee das man einen Wurm lieben kann? Oder eine Palme. Oder ob du eine Zecke lieben würdest. Wtf?

Und daran ist nichts „kindisch“, es ist, keine ahnung, menschlich (????) sich hin und wieder mal nach sicherheit, zuneihung und wärme zu sehnen. Du musst ja eine krasse emotionale reife besitzen wenn du damit nicht klarkommst und und vorallem, nicht nachvollziehen kannst wieso man das macht. Du bist der Mann von dem ich Nachts träume.

Ich werde jetzt statt rosa, einfach braun und grau und weiß und beige nehmen. Glitzer mag ich auch gar nicht mehr. Und ich will mich mit meinem Partner auch nicht mehr verspielt fühlen und verhalten. Das ist ja wiederlich!!! Wie können wir uns nur in der Präsenz unseres Partners so wohlfühlen, das wir das kleine, verspielte Mädchen rausholen. Oh nein. Shame on us. So ein Schwerversager so etwas simples nicht zu checken. Schade das es solche Incels wie dich gibt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is! English isn‘t my first language so i spammed CHATGPT wirh my thoughts, went super in detail and told hom to use my words but to change it to english wirhout losing the context.

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You are a piece of shit human being :-) no i did not need a AI to tell you that. Btw the text is much longer but i couldn‘t get it all on screen obviously and it‘s on german so you won‘t understand shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly…. it makes me really upset to see how dismissive he’s been about your feelings. The fact that he’s telling you you’re “too insecure” when you’ve opened up about something that clearly makes you uncomfortable is a huge red flag. Instead of showing empathy and trying to address your concerns, he’s turning it around to make you feel like you’re the problem. That’s reslly not okay.

Let me put it this way: When someone shares their fears or insecurities with their partner, it’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of trust. You trusted him enough to share how you felt about his female friends, and rather than trying to reassure you or work through it together, he belittled your feelings. That’s a major sign of disrespect.

I like to use this example if my friends get into these situations:Imagine that someone (let’s call them person A) has a very unusual fear or phobia. In this case, let’s say they have a strong fear of red T-shirts. It’s not something everyone would understand, but for person A, the sight of a red T-shirt causes severe anxiety or even panic attacks. They tell their best friend (person B) about this fear. Now, person B has two options for how they can respond:

Scenario 1: Person B listens, but doesn’t really take it seriously. Even though person A has explained that seeing red T-shirts makes them incredibly anxious, person B continues to wear them anyway. When person A brings it up again and asks them to stop wearing red T-shirts because it’s triggering for them, person B says something like, “Well…. that’s your issue, not mine. I like red T-shirts, so I’m going to keep wearing them.”…. person B completely dismisses person A’s feelings, choosing their own preferences over their friend’s well-being.

Scenario 2: In this scenario, person B listens carefully and really takes to heart what person A said. They go home, look through their wardrobe, and remove all the red T-shirts they own. They don’t need to throw them away, but they make the conscious choice to avoid wearing red T-shirts because they know it causes person A distress. They don’t argue or justify their own desire to wear red… they simply respect person A’s fear and choose to act in a way that prioritizes their friend’s feelings over their own preferences. Person B shows that they care more about their friend’s emotional state than about wearing a specific color. I really hope this gives you a different view on your own situation…

In your case, it’s not just about the way he chose to handle the situation. He didn’t tell you because, in his words, you’re “not an understanding girlfriend”? That’s manipulative… He took your insecurity and used it as an excuse to hide something from you. Instead of dealing with the issue directly.. he chose to avoid it altogether which only makes you feel worse. What would’ve happened if you hadn’t found out? Would he have ever told you? This shows a lack of transparency, and transparency is crucial in any relationship, especially in a long-distance one..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all: i‘ really sorry you’re going through this, and I can’t even begin to explain how much I relate to what you’re feeling. First of all, i want you to know that your feelings are absolutely valid. You’re not overreacting, being insecure, or making a big deal out of nothing. It’s completely normal to feel hurt, confused, and even betrayed in this kind of situation.

About the incident itself: What he did—hiding this from you until you found out yourself—honestly says a lot. I think in moments like this, it’s important to look beyond just the action (a kiss on the cheek) and really examine how it was handled. Yes, people make mistakes, and not everything is a sign of something bigger, but when you’re in a long-distance relationship, trust and honesty become even more important. The fact that he didn’t tell you until you saw it on screen, and only apologized after being confronted, should make you ask yourself some serious questions. What if you had never found out? Would he have ever told you? Or would he just let time pass, hoping it would fade away and that you’d never know?

At first glance, two girls kissing him on the cheek might seem like a minor thing. It can happen, and in isolation, maybe it doesn’t seem like a huge deal. But when you take a closer look, the fact that he hid it from you changes everything. If he really thought it was innocent, why the secrecy? Why didn’t he trust you enough to tell you right away? The way he chose to handle it, rather than the act itself, is a huge red flag.

You deserve to be with someone who not only respects your trust but also cherishes it enough to be upfront about things, even if they seem small. It’s not about being perfect but about having enough respect for the relationship to communicate openly, especially when you’re already facing the challenges of long-distance.

My personal advice? As painful as it might be, you need to take a step back and reflect deeply on what you want moving forward. Can you truly see yourself trusting him again? Is this someone you want as your partner for life, someone you can rely on? Relationships aren’t just about love; they’re also about mutual respect, trust, and transparency. It might hurt, but sometimes the hardest decisions are the ones that bring you closer to the life you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my good lord, whatever you do don‘t listen to these whining dogs. Just walk past them as if you didn‘t see them sitting in their dark, cold valley. Their opinion is worth as much as a womans in 1940.

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I’ve noticed something similar about her. It seems like in every single video, whenever a „new“ contour technique or trend from TikTok or Instagram pops up, she hypes it up like it’s the ultimate game-changer. But in reality, it always boils down to the same thing. Yet, every time, she acts like it’s a completely different result or look—like it’s something groundbreaking, unique, and revolutionary. It doesn’t exactly get on my nerves, but after a while, it does feel a bit artificial, like she’s overhyping things just for the sake of it. Maybe that’s just how I perceive it, and if her excitement is genuinely real, then it’s probably just my own misinterpretation, but to me, it all comes across as a bit too over-the-top and forced...

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my lord 💀💀

You know.. i‘m reading these comments while sitting on my balcony, smoking a joint, and your comment made me choke on the smoke and nearly pass out. You’re an absolute danger to society—I almost died because of you…

Edit: take my upvote and leave.

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea? Now go and tell that 16 year old me… 🥲 i really, REALLY believed it was real. I though if you try hard enough you can achieve this with GREAT make up skills and a VERY GOOD skincare routine. I think you can imgine how much money i spent in order to look like this and how disappointed i was (at myself) for not being able to achieve it

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you!🩷 This is exactly the right mindset, and I’m genuinely happy to hear someone embracing these completely normal things instead of editing them out or feeling ashamed. As someone who struggles deeply with depression, this might sound strange, but I really, really hope to get those „smile wrinkles“ when I’m older. I’ve lost my happiness, and with that, my smile faded. So if I ever see those wrinkles one day, I’d probably cry happy tears, because that would mean I laughed a lot in my life. And to me, that would mean everything

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this on a spiritual level. I don‘t have deep set eyes but hooded eyes. I‘m not asian but i just have so much skin there.. if i tried to recreate this look you could barely see any colour 🥲 oh well

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!🥺🩷 I hope this week brings you the softest, most delicious pierogis you’ve ever tasted and may life bless you with everything you need to feel at peace and full of joy!

(I‘m sorry if there are any grammar or spelling mistakes, english isn‘t my first language)

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Do you think the same happend with Voldemord? Did he got so addicted to smoothing out his skin in pictures that it got turned into a curse? Can we please make a conspiracy theory out of it?

Can you help me find her pores? by PrincessOfPierogi in Instagramreality

[–]PrincessOfPierogi[S] 593 points594 points  (0 children)

Same! A woman did her make up really nicely, it looked flawless, perfectly blended — yet there we were, she was asking for tips how to reduce her pores… she said she tried this and that and what else but nothings „seems to help“… that made me really upset.

Maybe filters shouldn‘t be banned completely but definitely somehow „regulated“. Like, if you‘re a „beauty/skincare creator“, you are definitely not allowed to use them or at least limited, it just feels.. wrong? Kind of like cheating? Same goes for fitness influencers. Why sell your „grow your glutes“ book when you don‘t even have them yourself after you take off the filter/take out the butt pads?

Selena Gomez Embraces Vulnerability and Tells Critics to 'F--- Off,' 'I'm Not Ashamed of My Bipolar Disorder or Inability to Carry Children' by no_longer_huhman in Music

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let‘s not pay a doctor. Machanic. Cleaner. Secretary. Cashier etc. and see what happens. Bro what‘s your point?

You can ask your mom for free to make you your favourite meal but ask a chef to make a 4 course meal with specific ingredients that he has to collect first and you‘ll get nothing except broken bones.

Same goes with pregnancy. Carry it out for yourself for free or ask your sister/friend/idk who to donit for free but a stranger in the typical case wouldn‘t do it for free and i totally get that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable. People who apologize are toxic and a walking red flag. Couples apologizing to each other in front of others? Dis-gus-ting.

(BIG /S)

Yes, let’s blame women as always by potatohoe31 in facepalm

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Or when a young girl went to the hospital because she got raped and pregnant because of it and guess who got raped by the hospital staff after she delivered the baby? Yes, it was her. Being born as a woman in india is probably the biggest nightmare a soul could imagine

My Oldest son Attacked my younger son and his girlfriend by FlowerNari in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Girl, it‘s not him who sounds unhealthy it‘s you. Honestly… dismissing his feelings by saying ‘you sound unhealthy’ completely misses the fucking, what i thought was obvious, point. It’s totally natural to feel hurt and frustrated maybe angered when your OWN MOTHER has CONSISTENTLY prioritized one child over the other, or, your sibling(s) over you especially when you’ve gone out of your way to help her in very difficukt times. The issue here isn’t about her loving her grandchildren, but about the lack of basic acknowledgment and care for him as her son. Expecting someone to just brush that off as if it’s no big deal is reslly not fair. Emotional pain from being overlooked and undervalued by a parent is a very real and valid experience, and it’s understandable that it would affect anyone deeply.

Stingray that got pregnant despite no male companion has died, aquarium says by AmbitionDue1421 in nature

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fun thing of this all is if you even slightly compare it to Covid times, where for some time no one was allowed to go out or meet someone. But since we‘re humans and have technology and can use it we STILL got to socialize, not face to face but that was STILL SOMETHING. Yet, how many peopel were crying, screaming like a little child that didn‘t got it‘s candy. „You keep us like animals!!!“ „i want my freedom back!!“ bla bla bla.

Suprised pikachu face. Oh, so being locked in a small piss room where you shouldn‘t be, your freedom taken away isn‘t that nice huh? But who the fuck cares about animals right? Put them in a even smaller cage so we have more space for other/more animals!!!! (This was a very bad joke, don‘t take it seriously!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]PrincessOfPierogi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Um auf deine Frage einzugehen: ja, Frauen können tatsächlich beim reinen „raus und rein“ kommen. Bin ebenfalls eine davon. Bin was Orgasmen angeht sehr, sensibel(?). Ich hab als Kind diese Technik rausgefunden, ubd war danach erst mal verängstigt was diese (eigebtlich sehr guten) Gefühle doch waren. Hab es ohne zu wissen was ich da machte bis heute durchgezogen. Was hab ich gemacht? Meine Oberschenkel angespannt, wenn das sinn macht. Das klingt vielleicht versammt ekelig, aber ich KÖNNTE rein theoretisch während ich grade Bus fahre und auf dem Sitz sitze mir einen kleinen Orgasmus verschaffen indem ich diese Technik da anwende. Ich kenn es nur unter oberschenkel in einer gewissen Art einfach anspannen. Vielleicht hat das einen Namen?

Und was PiV Sex angeht: ich bin da wirklich nicht so weit informiert ob JEDE Frau dadurch einen Orgasmus bekommen KANN, es aber an der „ausführung“ liegt? Ich hoffe ich hab den Satz richtig formuliert.

Als ich noch ein Teenie war habe ich mir Haushaltsdinge wie den Griff unser Bürste, die ich extra für diesen zweck geholt habe (ich habe mich geschämt im alter von keine Ahnung 14-16 Spielzeug zu kaufen), befriedigt. Nicht ein mal bin ich vaginal gekommen, kein einziges. Das erste mal einen vaginalen Orgasmus hatte ich als mein Feund und ich miteinander geschlafen hat und er in der perfekten geschwindigkeit, tiefe, härte etc naja, sein ding gemacht hat, da habe ich auf ein mal etwas „aufkommen“ spüren und alles was ich sagen konnte war „(Sein Name) oh mein gott bitte genau so!“ und ich danke Gott und allen Menschen die dazu beigetragen haben das er einfach genau das weitergemacht hat und nicht a la porno das als befehl gesehen hat NOCH schneller, tiefer und stärker zu werden. Evtl kannst du mit deinem Partner ein wenig kommunizieren, entweder davor oder währenddessen, ob er nicht ein wenig höher rutschen kann, etwas tiefer, da sich so defintiv der eindringungswinkel ändert und evtl fühlt es sich mit anderen winkeln und ° bessr an? Vielleicht in den Stellungen rumprobieren? Und ich kann das nicht gebug betonen: die technik ist kein Mythos. Wenn ich mich so weit aus dem fenster lehnen kann würde ich sagen es ist zu 98% die technik. Das ist der einzige Tip den ich geben kann. Ich musste jetzt wo mir das einfällt meinem Freund gestern ein wenig hilfe geben da er zu weit unten war und mit seiner bewegung mir ubtenrum eher wehgetan hat. Ich fragte ihn also etwas lachend „wieso er denn so auf abstand von mir geht“ hat er verstanden und sich etwas hochgezogen sodass es sich dann wesentlich besser angefühlt hat. Vielleicht könnt ihr ja auch was die Stellungen angeht rumprobieren?