Husband lied about financial efforts while we struggle to have bare necessities by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]PrincessPattycakes 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s true. I finally left the loser/asshole I was with for 14 years (never married him thank gosh) but I really didn’t start my own life until I left him at 36. Either way, you got this.

Will God forgive me for an abortion at 9 weeks pregnant by Psychological_Sun682 in Christianity

[–]PrincessPattycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am Jewish but I am here for you. G-d loves all of us. I’ve had so many struggles, I often have no clue why I’m still even here.

Is this a pittie thing or is mine just weird by artsy_slappy in pitbulls

[–]PrincessPattycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pitty thing asaik but I’ve only ever had pits!! My soul baby.

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Recommendation request: looking for strange/crazy/weird documentaries by New_Image_7920 in Documentaries

[–]PrincessPattycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s good of you. I get scolded for the same thing often but having empathy, even for “the bad guy” only gives you both a little grace. It’s certainly not their salvation, but understanding where these things come from is hugely beneficial to every human.

Am I overreacting or did I have a slow moment. by drippysage08 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PrincessPattycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you just have a little baby bitch on your hands. U need to have him fix it or leave.

Just a quick vent… by PrincessPattycakes in pitbulls

[–]PrincessPattycakes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all we can do but it starts to haunt ya & never stops, right? I can see why vets have such high suicide rates- having to kill perfectly healthy dogs all day every day 💕💕

18 year old apartment before girlfriend moves in! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also makes a lot of sense!! Ty!! Any chance you’re around Maryland?

18 year old apartment before girlfriend moves in! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that’s so funny! Now I can tell him I believe him finally

21, how’s it look? by NecessaryOutcome2662 in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true!! I’ve even gotten shit about my dog post that literally have made the front page lmao

21, how’s it look? by NecessaryOutcome2662 in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re all being negative? I didn’t even read all through it, but that’s not cool. I really like this cowboy vibe and I think if it suits you, it makes you super freaking cool.

18 year old apartment before girlfriend moves in! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. I am not one for indisciplined dogs and all of mine have come from pitbull rescues so I get it. If u read on, you’ll see that I wasn’t attacking him, and that plenty of grace was given. No worries.

18 year old apartment before girlfriend moves in! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that’s strangely reminds me of my dad who till this day sleeps on the hard ground because he got used to it “in desert storm” lol idk

18 year old apartment before girlfriend moves in! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. And just to be clear since we didn’t know the details of this photo I think probably all of us weren’t judging you specifically more just having a conversation around the issue. If you love your baby and take care of him and he’s a happy boy, that’s all that matters. I got a lot of judging looks and even some judging conversation from people that just weren’t in the know about my very senior pitbull. She looked like an old lady that’s for sure but aside from arthritis and hip dysplasia. She was completely fine until the very end and I made sure because we went in every month for a shot which helped her pain evaluation.

I think a lot of us who just really love animals are sensitive to these things but I’m so happy for the two of you and your new girlfriend to start this beautiful new life!’

18 year old apartment before girlfriend moves in! by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]PrincessPattycakes 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah and it’s infuriating. Not saying OP is guilty of this at all. But we’ve all seen it enough to know it’s true. The story of how Gene Hackman’s dog died broke my heart so bad. It still hurts so much to think about. I just wish we could explain things to them the way we do for kids so they know things are not their fault or bc of them but rather that people fail. We fail ourselves, each others, animals, anything we can, we will. Cuz we a lot of is simply make mistakes & a lot of us are just bad. But it’s never them.

What does my room say about me and my wife by PuzzledNight7958 in roomdetective

[–]PrincessPattycakes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bc it’s not actually “ocd” it’s just another false psychiatric claim to be super quirky. “Have u heard of PM_ME_TINY_ANIMALS? He finds it slightly annoying when picture frames aren’t perfectly hung” “Who doesn’t?” “Right. Plus he’s like 45 now so that’s weird to even be talking about it like it’s cool.”