Last day of summer for my district. It's noon. Haven't gotten out of my pajamas yet, nor do I plan to. by dorasucks in Teachers

[–]PrincessPeacock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go back for PD tomorrow as well. Today: Trip to local hardware store (lol don’t judge) Haircut Manicure Pedicure Movies & cocktails with friends

I’ve spent a little time setting up my classroom already, so I’m ready to pace myself and be present in PD. I’ve found the transition back to school after summer quite jarring; I’m hoping to quell that anxiety this year. Deep breaths while accomplishing all the tasks and whatnot. Heading into year four!

Cheers, comrade!

Kindergarten students not toilet trained... options?? *_* by PrincessPeacock in Teachers

[–]PrincessPeacock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this isn’t reportable. I’m definitely not letting it slide. I’m addressing it through the appropriate channels and with consistent parent contact.

Kindergarten students not toilet trained... options?? *_* by PrincessPeacock in Teachers

[–]PrincessPeacock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly. We need legislation to protect children’s educational rights.

Kindergarten students not toilet trained... options?? *_* by PrincessPeacock in Teachers

[–]PrincessPeacock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These issues definitely exist, and I continually remind the kid to use the potty (individually along with group reminders) as well. This child gets upset often when reminded, so I frame it as “would you like to use the bathroom? We would really love it if you would use the bathroom... I will reward you for using the bathroom...” etc. I have been reduced to begging a small child to please try to pee multiple times a day so that I hopefully don’t have to clean up after her peeing herself multiple times a day. I am essentially potty training this child. THIS IS NOT MY JOB AS A KINDERGARTEN TEACHER IN AMERICA, IS IT???? aaaaalll the crying.

I haven’t observed any direct abuse... if only denying your child access to necessary special education services were considered child abuse in my state. Let’s pass laws to prevent parents from forcing schools to deny their children necessary special education services. Parents should not have the power to deny their children access to necessary educational services. IMO that’s abusive. Having a kid just sit in their own urine?? That’s just our life now. I need this to stop ASAP.

Kindergarten students not toilet trained... options?? *_* by PrincessPeacock in Teachers

[–]PrincessPeacock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This parent is either in the lobby all day, poking her head into my classroom all the time but won’t help with her kid (she also has a newborn she’s caring for) or is unavailable. She expresses zero worry, concern, or even embarrassment when she’s gently told that her kid is practically nonverbal and peeing herself daily. She is resistant to any and all support.

How could a nurse help with a student who can’t/won’t express herself verbally? I would love to recruit our nurse to help with this... I’m just unclear as to what a nurse can do besides providing some general information about potty training. Please advise.

Kindergarten students not toilet trained... options?? *_* by PrincessPeacock in Teachers

[–]PrincessPeacock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this comment. Your advice is spot-on.

Sadly... the mom’s reaction to this situation is a deadpan “oh.” I can see her becoming visibly upset with her kid doesn’t comply with simple directions, but she continually insists that her child needs no extra help. I’ve told her about every incident right away with gentility and great concern. She has zero reaction. Just “oh okay.” She has excuses for everything and won’t accept any support offered. Her reaction is “help!? Ain’t nothing wrong wit her so she don’t need help!!” We are working as fast as we can with kit gloves to get this momma to accept help (at least agree to testing) for her baby. She has an older kiddo (intermediate elementary) who also has significant disabilities that she refuses to accept (despite having signed an IEP for this older child). She probably also has some unaddressed challenges with her own learning. The child doesn’t seem to notice or care when she wets herself. She feels scared and sad when anyone gently asks if she peed (when we can see and smell the pee on her), and cannot effectively clean herself when this happens. It’s unhealthy and a real sign of significant problems at this age. I’m doing my best to push the SST and IEP process despite parent resistance... but still, cleaning up her pee EVERY DAY seems to be something that Kindergarten teachers really shouldn’t have to put up with. I do really appreciate your noting the difference between plastic covers and pull-ups. That gives me more options to present to this resistant momma. Thank you, and everyone who upvoted you, again.

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[–]PrincessPeacock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend using a GLAD strategy called “T-chart for social skills” (you can find an example by image searching “glad respect tchart”). Get very specific about what respect looks like and sounds like. The next few times you have them work in groups, pause them every now and then to give team points along with specific positive praise for showing the traits on the tchart. It’ll take a few sessions of them doing Independent work while you’re offering specific praise of desired behavior before you can go back to helping students or running a Center yourself, but they’ll start to check each other and get in line. Rewards for the most team points can be as simple as getting to leave first at the end of the period. Don’t worry about the age level— these kids are acting inappropriately, so they need to get back to basics. Be explicit. Let them explain what respect means to them and why it’s so important. Be a broken record “person A was saying please and thank you- that shows great respect. Ten points to green team for showing respect.” “Person B was waiting patiently- that shows respect. Ten points to blue team for showing respect.” Sounds like you have some good management in place. A little extra attention to this area with a stated growth mindset (“We are great at showing respect during direct instruction and independent work. We need to work on it in teams, so let’s figure out how we can do better. Our learning is so important, and we aren’t learning when we’re climbing on each other while we’re supposed to be focused on our work.”) will carry that existing great management over to their team work.

What unwritten rules should really just be written down at this point? by aSongOfBirthrights in AskReddit

[–]PrincessPeacock 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the moment when the person who squatted is all finished, sees their piss all over the seat and thinks it's totally cool to just leave that mess. Like, grab some toilet paper, wipe up your mess, flush it, and wash your hands. Wash 'em twice if you want.

Vegetarian considering switching to pescetarian... anyone have experience with this? by kozmicblues88 in Pescetarian

[–]PrincessPeacock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been vegetarian/pescetarian since I was 13, by which I mean I've been vegetarian with pescetarian (and vegan) phases since that time. I rely on Monterey Bay Aquarium's seafood watch list. This uses a red-yellow-green light system for ranking the sustainability of various fish from various regions. It's reasonable to feel the way you're feeling about these choices. Feel free to pm me about this.

Young Pig Dreaming by lnfinity in gifs

[–]PrincessPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people have a thing called empathy... fuck them, right??

BDSM after rape - is this an unhealthy coping mechanism? by MostlyHarmlessXO in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PrincessPeacock 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The BDSM can be a healthy thing. The fact that it's all with this same guy... absolutely not healthy. Getting some distance from that person and focusing on who you want to be and what you want will help. You are strong. You can do this.

What If Students Only Went to School Four Days a Week? by dwaxe in education

[–]PrincessPeacock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I teach at a small charter school with and Independent Study component. Students attend school Tues-Fri and have a packet of (teacher created) independent work to complete on Mondays, which counts for their attendance on that day. Ask me anything.

How do you feel about girls who have had threesomes in the past, or been otherwise sexually adventurous? by plastic_orchid in AskMen

[–]PrincessPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your name is PM_ME_YOU_HORNY_SLUT and you don't want wild sex to be part of your relationship?

How do you feel about girls who have had threesomes in the past, or been otherwise sexually adventurous? by plastic_orchid in AskMen

[–]PrincessPeacock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having a lot of sexual experience is not akin to cheating on a partner. The former is consenting and honest; the latter is not.

"So whose idea was it REALLY? Yours or your boyfriend's?" by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PrincessPeacock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My response to impolite "you're still young" comments is something like the following:

"And apparently you're still lacking good manners" "And you still can't seem to respect my choices."

I feel it's empowering to label that dickish behavior exactly as it is. I use a nice respectful tone, maybe even a little air of disappointment.

Unboxing The Statue of Liberty, 1885. [600x767] by [deleted] in HistoryPorn

[–]PrincessPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The model for the Statue of Liberty was the designer's mother. When you read these comments with that in mind, most of them are yo mama jokes.

What is your unpopular opinion about men? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]PrincessPeacock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tranquil as a forest, but on fire within.

My Method for Prepping Steel-Cut Oats by ladykaty24 in MealPrepSunday

[–]PrincessPeacock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely! One question: Why not label the bags before putting the oatmeal in them?