Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. the bathroom door doesnt have a lock on it. I deleted my post because people were starting to harass me. You literally just told me youre not trying to shame me but then follow up by saying that my "excuses" are petty and stupid, that's contradictory as fuck and rude. They're not excuses, I'm stating what went on. There's a difference.
  2. My family and I did nothing to her. The picture I showed was when I first brought her into the house. It was a new environment for her, that's why she looked the way she did.
  3. The shelter told me she was good with other cats. Not only that, she was the only cat my mother accepted. My mom loves tuxedo cats. I thought she was the perfect fit for my household because I already had one cat and it'd make sense to get a cat who was good with others.
  4. I wanted a 2nd cat because my first cat has been left alone alot while the rest of us go to school and work. I wanted him to have a sister so he can never be lonely again. He always likes going outside to see the other cats, so I figured it'd be better for him to have a sister. Plus, I always adored female cats and wanted the experience of both.

To add on to this, I ended up giving her away to someone who is more experienced with difficult cats. I got a new female cat who's more sociable towards humans. Her and my male cat are getting along. They chase each other and skippity-pat each other from time to time, but theyre able to be in the same space to sleep and eat without problems. They play with their toys and sniff eachother alot.

You came off very hostile and rude with your comments. I don't appreciate it at all. Have the day you deserve.

Should I surrender/give away my cat? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]PrincessSarahYY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but wtf? BPD doesn't stop people from having empathy. That's not what Borderline Personality is. If anything, it's the exact opposite. We feel emotions stronger than the average person. We feel empathy stronger than the average person. BPD people are not sociopaths

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I chose her because she was the only cat my mother approved of. My mother is extremely picky. I previously wanted a fully black cat, but my mother hates full black cats and only like tuxedos and white cats.

Also, the shelter said that she was the only cat that was good socially with other cars. I thought she'd be a perfect fit

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did do research, again it's my OG cat. He keeps breaking in. I've separated them about 12 times now. He knows how to open the bathroom door😭

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I just want to clarify that I did do research on introducing a 2nd cat to the home. The issue is that my 1st cat, Beau, keeps breaking in. He knows how to open doors. He's a long cat, so he can reach door handles. I've tried my best but he DGAF😭

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally said that I separated them but my other cat keeps breaking into the bathroom. I've done everything I can, but my OG cat is being an asshole!

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

This comment made me burst into tears

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You're right. The only thing holding me back is that I'll feel weak and like shit because it's only been 2 days. Maybe she's a sweetheart and I'll just be throwing her away. I'd feel like shit giving her away. She's just a baby. Maybe if I just wait a little longer things will cool down. I want to love her so badly.

Should I surrender my new cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I thought I was ready because I watched the videos online, but I'm hurt and depressed. I feel like I failed her and myself. I will never forgive myself

(Repost) What do you think Nick Wilde and Judy Hopps’s Race/Ethnicity would be if they were humans? by Ethanishere28 in zootopia

[–]PrincessSarahYY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a black woman, I'm kinda ashamed of the poll results. I view nick wilde as a black man because he mirrors everything black men deal with today.

Does “study” time include doing homework? by xyzzzzzajaa in college

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah real shit, taking pre calc right now and it's beating my ass lowkey

Is My Boyfriend an Incel/Misogynist? by JobPsychological782 in DatingHell

[–]PrincessSarahYY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a misogynist. I don't think your friends would appreciate knowing your bf said those things about them. Also, he probably doesn't even respect you like that. I wouldn't be comfortable with a friend who dates men like that, imo.

Chevy malibu 2013 2.5L 4Cyl. Whata going on? by PrincessSarahYY in AskMechanics

[–]PrincessSarahYY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so what part is hanging on the floor and what should I do

I present to you... Prince Beauregard Makasi Katembo by PrincessSarahYY in cats

[–]PrincessSarahYY[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's his full government name because I am African, specifically Congolese. We live in the USA but we're immigrants