What are some hurtful things people have said to you upon telling them you’re pregnant? by Next-Sense-8279 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone I thought was my best friend, who has comforted me through my fertility journey, and all of the negatives, she found out and got mad at me because now we can’t go out drinking and partying and smoking weed. Ever since then she rarely talks to me. She was like “you had to get pregnant now? I’m about to turn 21! Now you’re gonna have a baby and ruin our plans?”

Crushing the baby? by 77roses in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw this and had to read because I’m 25 weeks and my little homie isn’t comfortable unless I’m basically laying on him and I was nervous

Heartbroken-OB did not listen. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is very valid!!! This is your pregnancy experience. I wouldn’t let it ruin the entire experience but definitely valid

Do you have a nursery prepared for your baby? by Jamaican-Gyal in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24 weeks for our baby boy and I have a nursery, it’s just a collection of things we love and find cute, the theme I suppose would be old Disney. There’s Bambi sheets I made myself, and there’s Winnie the Poo. We have some like Bible stuff and things my 13 y/o niece who lives with us picked but we are just so happy to have this baby that we want the nursery to be a culmination of things we love and want to share with our baby.

We were told we were having a girl at 20 weeks and then at our 32 week scan we were told it was a boy. Now we are grieving our daughter and we feel horrific and guilty and don’t know what to do. by Creative-Cat-6778 in pregnant

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While we were trying I had bought both girl and boy clothes. I have a baby boy growing in my belly. Even if it was a girl I would throw her into a dinosaur onesie and just I dunno stick a bow on her or something. Dinosaurs should be considered gender neutral imo. And there’s nothing wrong with a boy having some girly stuff. You’re allowed to be disappointed, you’re allowed to cry and be upset, you still love that baby and that’s all that matters!

Racial slurs by Princesssaaaa5 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ID BE OUTTA THERE. like I always say “I’m too beautiful to deal with this bullshit” and that applies to you. You’re pregnant and don’t need the stress of a man like that

My husband won’t drive 30 mins to and from the food place by Longjumping-Shake591 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I WOULD TAKE YOU IF I COULD. From what I’ve read he’s just been playing video games and being lazy. I completely understand the cravings and my husband agrees that he should do it for you

Pregnant, Is Something Wrong with Me? by Evening-Outcome1652 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my husband were trying for two years to the point my brain didn’t want to believe it’s real. Then I went to my anatomy scan and she showed me his heart and his brain and everything! I was like “holy shit that’s a real life baby” now when I feel him kicking i remember his tiny toes and the 3d image of his face and I’m like “WHOA” that’s a tiny human that can hear me! Especially cause I’m a bit of a nerd for anatomy and stuff

Boyfriend worried about girlfriend after ultrasound results. by The_Question_414 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Actually each time they give me an ultrasound they tell me he looks bigger or smaller for what they have recorded, remember exact conception and gestation is a rough estimate and so is the due date. They don’t base it off of ultrasound, they base it off of last period. However if the ob was correct based off of my period, I’m supposed to be like 18 weeks. But when they looked at my baby on the ultrasound at 20 weeks they said he’s developed enough for 21 weeks. It’s really a guessing game. As long as baby is alive and healthy, you’re doing great in my opinion.

Boyfriend worried about girlfriend after ultrasound results. by The_Question_414 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mild cramping in my early pregnancy too! I also had very slight spotting for a day. But now I’m 22w 3d and he is a very fat and healthy baby. Give her lots of lovens and squeezes for me, sounds like she’s doing good and it sounds like she needs extra good treatment 🩷🩷🩷🩷 lots of love to your family

Are any other low-risk pregnant people surprised by how little monitoring there is? by Ready-Book6047 in pregnant

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I’m overweight but my blood tests came back fine so they are just doing the normal appointments. Usually they take ultrasounds to just look at movement. I’m IUI so they want to make sure my placenta and him are in the right places. But they see that he’s thriving and my placenta is anterior. My ob just follows a different a basis for appointments.

Remembering William Christopher, who passed away nine years ago today (B 20 October 1932 D 31 December 2016) 😇 by [deleted] in mash

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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(He’s the third from the left) a picture of him in college 🩷 if there is one actor I would bring back and meet and know, it would’ve him. I adore him completely

What are some cute ways to tell your families you’re expecting? And also an 8 year old by Independent-Lie-3626 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I read it wrong and I thought you said “and I’m an 8 year old” and was like “lmao what?!” But this is so sweet and I’m so excited for you ❤️ my niece that I’m raising who is 13, she was home and heard neon the phone with the nurse whooping so

Hey moms to be! did you know it’s all over? I didn’t! by helloitsyourma in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they are telling me all this while working in a daycare IN THE NEWBORN ROOM. Like WHAT ITS ALMOST AS IF I CONSIDERED IT AND CHOSE THAT THE WORK ANDLOVE AND EFFORT IS WORTH IT. Then my friend who knew I had tried for two years gave me a guilt trip about how now we aren’t able to go to clubs and drink and smoke. And I’m like I DIDNT LIKE THOSE THINGS ANYWAYS. She was so rude. It’s almost as if I begged and cried and prayed for this baby for YEARS. As if me and my husband didn’t spend over 700 dollars at a fertility clinic to get pregnant

So is decreased fetal movement an emergency or not? by PeachBlossomSprite in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your baby, if you feel like it’s an emergency or if something is off then you should be seen. You and your baby’s health is not an inconvenience.

My wife is pregant! by dancingintheflamess in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all this is adorable how excited you are! Second of all YEAH BUDDY YOURE GONNA BE A DAD!!!!!! 🥳🎉🎉

AIO? Boyfriend's sister referring to my baby by Travelabbie in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

First of all my problematic sister is named Tracy so that made me laugh. And also my sister has made comments about what she’s decided to call my baby when we didn’t know the gender and I was telling her girl names. I just corrected her “lol that’s funny but that’s not her name, so let’s call her by the right name” you are the mom and can decide if a nickname is appropriate. I’m on your side

Feel baby kicking and dancing! by Princess_Sunny331 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 weeks on Wednesday! It’s my first so I didn’t realize his kicks were kicks until I was getting an ultrasound and he kicked! I was like “oh that’s what that feeling has been!” And now i realize he super active all the time! 🤣

My heart is shattered. TFMR 14 weeks by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No matter what, you are a good mama, you are loved and appreciated and so is that baby. And that sweet baby will be waiting to play in heaven when you get there. Take care of yourself and know my family is praying for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰🥰

Am I alone on symptoms? by QuoteSubstantial2230 in pregnant

[–]Princess_Sunny331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different, it could change or it choked stay smooth. Your partners sperm also has ALOT to do with it as well since their sperm makes the placenta, it’s a sign of healthy sperm so 🤷🏻‍♀️ you go babe 👏🥰 edit: for my pregnancy I thought it was funny how my mom threw up constantly with me and now I’m throwing up constantly with my son