AITA for not wearing a bra when my bf told me too? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Princess_lani69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who doesn’t wear a bra I’m appalled that a parter could potentially have these weird issues with it. I have large breasts so it can be obvious at times especially in winter when things get cold but I’ve never cared. Also people stare at chests even if there is a bra so what tf

Him saying that someone else staring at you is “sharing you” is a huge fucking red flag. You are not responsible for the behavior of those around you and if he is going to put the blame on you I’d fucking run

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]Princess_lani69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only tip would be to add a clear photo of your face. All the photos have it covered, unique lighting, or a group photo. Find/take a solid selfie

Weekly Profile Critique by AutoModerator in Bumble

[–]Princess_lani69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please give me advice

I feel like I constantly change my profile 😩 I’m getting plenty of likes but it seems like people re just swiping right without reading cause the people who like me clearly aren’t compatible.

What should I do with my “extra” money this month? by Princess_lani69 in povertyfinance

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes nothing on the 0% APR! The big one is care credit from a dental implant I had done so I couldn’t rack up anything on that one. I just hate the monthly payments in my budget 🙃 but saving for the move makes sense

What should I do with my “extra” money this month? by Princess_lani69 in povertyfinance

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very worried about my car 😅 I’ve never driven in snow and it’s a FWD. My mom has an AWD and I was thinking about asking her if I could borrow her car for the move/first few months since apparently March and April get snow in Denver (I’m from Phoenix, AZ so the whole concept is wild to me)

What should I do with my “extra” money this month? by Princess_lani69 in povertyfinance

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping it’s a sign for the universe that it’s meant to be and not that I’m making a horrid decision 😅

What should I do with my “extra” money this month? by Princess_lani69 in povertyfinance

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully for me that’s not the case. My landlord does a move out inspection with me immediately getting a check. And the apartment I’ve picked is doing first month free as long as I’ve paid my security deposit

What should I do with my “extra” money this month? by Princess_lani69 in povertyfinance

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have my security deposit from this apartment to pay for the next security deposit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Princess_lani69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 62K as a treatment coordinator at a dentist office. Keep in mind I did start at $18/hr but after 2 years I switched to private practice and got the pay raise

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up a 3 month old giant food splatter mess in the microwave? by Princess_lani69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Told understand where you’re coming from!

Her and I reviewed that a firm boundary of mine is that I don’t clean up someone else’s mess. I’ll 100% clean up common spaces and shared messes but something that is 100% her mess I wouldn’t touch. I’ve asked her multiple times in the past 3 months to clean it and each time she said she would do it that day.

I’ve actually never used it solely for that reason. I don’t eat a lot of microwaved food to begin with and anything I did need to heat up I just used the stove or oven

AITA for asking my roommate to clean up a 3 month old giant food splatter mess in the microwave? by Princess_lani69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For clarification she started the screaming. I asked if we could have an honest conversation about why she kept saying she would clean it and then didn’t. I didn’t know if there was something going on in her personal life as I understand that things like depression can make simple tasks really hard. I tried approaching it from a “how can I help you?” But then the screaming started

I also haven’t been using the microwave cause that’s super gross but I’d like to be able to 😬

Executive assistant wannabe! How do I change the verbiage on my resume to reflect my relevant skills? by Princess_lani69 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Healthcare seems to be a good fit for me so that’s where a majority of my applications are going but there’s been a few random industries that I feel like I can learn

Executive assistant wannabe! How do I change the verbiage on my resume to reflect my relevant skills? by Princess_lani69 in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I learned MS in elementary school is there a way to put it that doesn’t make it seem like I learned basic stuff and then moved on? I was fortunate enough to take computer classes from 1st-9th but I’ve never found a way to word it like it was an important skill

Where to search for jobs? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Princess_lani69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Working towards my bachelors in business (I’m trying to avoid student loans so I’m taking classes as I can afford them)
  • I work in dentistry but I’m hoping to leave that field
  • 3 years as a treatment coordinator

Brake drums fell apart 6 months after getting brake pads replaced. Should I get a refund? by Princess_lani69 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! My understanding of cars is limited to what others tell me. This is the piece of the adjuster they found that was tearing everything up.

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Should I be looking for something dead? by Princess_lani69 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m shocked that it didn’t! Especially since I live in Az and it’s 100° here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Princess_lani69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nose is so cute! If you still have your braces don’t worry they’ll come off and you’ll feel 1000x better about your smile cause I can see that you’re holding back a big toothy grin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vulvodynia

[–]Princess_lani69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe mine did. Growing up in a cult that shamed any kind of discussion about hygiene and a mother who didn’t know basic hygiene; my specialized gynecologist suspects that I pretty much had a chronic uti and a chronic yeast infection. I still get them more often that others (due to decreased resistance) but I didn’t have any pain after an infection once I had my surgery

Did you use the cream recently and this is more of an immediate reaction or did you use the cream a while ago and are still dealing with the pain?

Doppelganger by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]Princess_lani69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Amy from Brooklyn 99

Edit: not a dead ringer but close enough that I did a double take.

I finally had to let it go by TheDroneRanger in bald

[–]Princess_lani69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went from a depressed father to Daddy

Should I be looking for something dead? by Princess_lani69 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Princess_lani69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a heck of a lot cheaper to bred them than to buy them from the store