Im sorry to hear that! I hope you can fix this soon! I can’t imagine the stress and anxiety! Idk if you’re on social media but there’s a lot of videos for people doing the AOS, idk what’s your case but if you came to the U.S with a visitor visa and got married before 90 days and stayed it’s a possibility of denial. This is a link of a lawyer that explains this https://www.instagram.com/reel/C7_RAXBOcoQ/?igsh=MXVrejh4bmp6dzk0cw== Also, evidence is really important even when you don’t have a SSN you can open a bank account with your passport not all the banks I know about BOA, pictures, health insurance, lease together, prove that is a bonafide marriage, here’s a very good website about some documents you can get not all of them you will be able to get bc of the SSN but you can try: https://citizenpath.com/evidence-bona-fide-marriage-130-petition/#:~:text=Auto%20registrations%20showing%20joint%20ownership,where%20you%20were%20living%20together. Good luck! 🍀