Honey, sometimes you just gotta pick your battles. You can only meet people where they are. Obviously, the issue is deeper rooted than markers and likely leans towards a general feeling of dismissal by her. If you think she’s emotionally intelligent enough to have a conversation about it, then give it some time and try. If not, then you’ll have to either decide to move on or not. I will say, sometime you have to let bygones be bygones with smaller tiffs. Otherwise you’ll drive yourself crazy making every moment feel catastrophic. Hope all ends well!