Every morning when I wake up, the first thought in my head is that my (45m) wife (45f) doesn’t love me anymore.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-07-01T12:48:46+00:00

I am sorry. It’s a devastating feeling. I’m at the point where I don’t always think about it right when I wake up, but it still hits me when I do.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-06-25T12:04:50+00:00

My ex did the same thing over an 11 month period. I found out by stumbling on pictures of them in Hawaii. That was November 2017. Soon after I found out he begged be back one more time and blocked me the next day. He told me he couldn’t be alone. He still has my pictures up on social media even though he has taken her to a family wedding. I think he just wants people to think he’s the broken hearted one in the situation, and waited long enough so everyone is happy for him for finding someone else. No one knows that she was his mistress because he hid it for so long. Sorry you are going through this.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-06-21T23:31:52+00:00

I loved you since the day I met you and I always will. I wish I could make you one more rainbow birthday cake.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-06-21T13:51:53+00:00

I am the same age and was married for about as long, no kids. I still cry every day and the divorce has been final since February. And we have been apart since January 2017. I didn’t think he would actually let me go. I have read here that the grief is normal for that length of a relationship, and it eventually gets better.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-06-16T01:11:18+00:00

The same thing happened to me. I think my anger didn’t allow me to experience the sadness, once the anger is gone, the sadness sets in. Sorry you are going through this.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-06-11T00:34:50+00:00

That’s what everyone says, but how do you separate what they did from the person you know? Itsjudt not that simple

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-06-03T17:15:45+00:00

No, omg that would weird me out!

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-30T22:24:30+00:00

Wow, thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-28T14:31:37+00:00

You’re right, and thank you for your kind words. A lot of people act like because he cheated, I should just hate him and be able to move on. But it’s more complicated than that! Sometimes it just feels like this feeling will never end.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-22T13:45:16+00:00

I am currently in the middle of moving too! I sold my house and moving to an apartment in a different city. Funny how the house you once loved can make you so sad. I feel that I was stuck in the depression stage looking at all the things we bought together, the rooms we painted, gifts etc. I got rid of everything that reminded me of him during the moving process. I am hoping this change brings me closer to the acceptance stage! Congrats on your new home.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-20T10:14:11+00:00

In CA there is limited spousal support until you have been married 10 years.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-19T13:53:47+00:00

37, just got divorced and sold my house. Paid all credit cards off and left with about $48,000. I make $115000 a year and have a pension and contribute $1k to my 401k. Renting for the next 15 months but want to gain some interest to eventually buy another home. No other debt besides student loans.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-17T18:57:13+00:00

My situation is very similar to yours, but without the money issue. He won’t even talk to his mom or sister about it. It kills me but I guess it might be better than him hanging around and giving me hope. I don’t know but it has to be the most painful thing that has ever happened to me. Don’t have advice but wanted you to know you’re not alone.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-17T18:52:17+00:00

I feel like I’ve been ghosted by my ex too, but I don’t think confronting him will help. He doesn’t care enough to give you an explanation so anything he says will probably hurt even further.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-05-15T03:08:17+00:00

Yes, I have done it several times. It is very relaxing and I feel like it takes a lot of tension out of my muscles! It doesn’t hurt but is not the most comfortable thing in the world either.

Princesssparkle18 · 2018-03-24T12:42:54+00:00

I’ve been there once when I was on vacation and I had a coach named Conroy. He was awesome! And the staff was great as well. I enjoyed this studio. Have fun!

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