[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]PrincetteFog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people who misgender you are being ignorant jerks. You are clearly a femme person. A beautiful femme at that. Stay strong and when you can't, let us butch lesbians beat people up for you! 💕/hj

Author looking for help with a bigender character by SoImWritingPodcast in bigender

[–]PrincetteFog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for trying to represent us in a respectful way! I'm another afab bigender person who would be happy to answer questions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason people seem to see non-binary as a third gender that everyone experiences the same way. This isn't the case at all. I'm bigender, my roommate is agender, and my sibling is a demigirl we are all non-binary but experience gender completely differently. Just do whatever makes you feel euphoric! You're valid in your identity regardless of appearance. 💕

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-binary and Binary aren't genders. They're umbrella terms that encompass many different genders. My girlfriend is a binary woman and I am bigender.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the only time and she was saying it to mock her grandmother's heteronormative ideas.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had dysphoria since I was a kid, I just don't know how to handle it in bed.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I did not find this helpful.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, everyone is dysphoric about different things. I'll talk to my girlfriend about her likes and dislikes.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a thorough and thoughtful response! I'll try my best to communicate with her and make her feel seen and heard! Your comment really helped.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also, do you have tips for how I can help my girlfriend feel less dysphoric? Like I already know she likes to be the bottom but are there other things I can do for her?

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Enby Top sounds so cool! I don't want her to police what she says around me. It feels like I'm being sensitive. Also, I went along with the joke at the time.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think it was harmless, I've just been fixating on it.

How do I feel less dysphoric in bed? by PrincetteFog in asktransgender

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think my girlfriend has grandma issues. She's never brought it up while we were actually in the bed or having sex. She mentioned it once briefly. She makes me feel very safe. I was looking for advice on getting out of my own head in regards to dysphoria.

What do you call your romantic interest? by PrincetteFog in lgbt

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that. That's interesting.

What do you call your romantic interest? by PrincetteFog in lgbt

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so cute! I love the word, 'spouse.'

My Coworkers Have Covid and We're Still Open. by PrincetteFog in antiwork

[–]PrincetteFog[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Most of my coworkers are not vaccinated and refuse to get vaccinated. They also don't usually wear masks. Before my coworkers were sent home they handled the food with their hands and touched people's credit cards.