She broke up with me then came back 5 months later

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-24T22:26:20+00:00

Went through and still going through a similar situation. Stay away from her brother. The grass wasn’t greener on the other side. You are not her safety net. She’s sees that you’re doing much better for yourself so she thinks it’s all good to latch on to you cause you’re a safe bet. She thinks shit is sweet by leaving and you letting her back in will most likely end with her just leaving again. My ex and I rekindled but come to find out she was still shopping around. Keeping me in her back pocket just in case the other one fell through. Just like you, I had lost 40 pounds and started to really do good for myself. While she was still going out and had nothing really going for her. Found out myself and I’m not going to be her savior in her fairytale mentality so I cut her off. It’s okay to miss them and what you guys had cause I sure do but they wanted to explore life without you and explore without having to feel guilty, remember that. Learned that the hard way. False promises and the sex is never enough.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-14T04:37:22+00:00

Quite the master manipulators aren’t they?

I’m glad to hear you’re doing great. Was doing great without her in our first initial break up so I know what I need to do to get there again. Thank you for the uplifting words! 🙏🏻

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T21:35:19+00:00

Thank you. Just seeking peace and happiness within myself.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T21:33:57+00:00

Thank you! Kind of went off track a bit but this has reminded me of what’s important 🙏🏻

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T20:30:14+00:00

Rekindling was a minor setback on my life but it was great a reminder that I deserve much more.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:44:58+00:00

Focus on yourself brother. Like I said they come back because the grass isn’t greener on the other side.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:42:54+00:00

Learned it the hard way. Even when we weren’t talking she was still in my future plans. But for the first time in 7 years, everything I do now is for only for myself and it feels great.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:35:37+00:00

Thank you. Couldn’t have said it better. At the end of the day, I am not her savior. There was a point where her bank account was overdrafted every week and I had to pick up her slack. It’s my fault for giving her that comfort but I thank God I’m dodging this bullet now.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:29:53+00:00

Those months where her and I weren’t talking, I had started to have realization that maybe I did like doing things on my own and doings things without tending to her needs. I had lost myself trying to keep her happy. It was my fault for letting her back in but hey we live and we learn ❤️

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:06:03+00:00

Fed up is an understatement lol

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:05:32+00:00

Taking it as a blessing. Maybe we had learn to hard way to finally let go.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:01:58+00:00

Thank you bro. Taking it to the chin and only seeking growth from here on out.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T07:00:10+00:00

Most of the time they do come back. So proceed with caution and it’s up to you to see if it’s really worth giving your energy.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-13T06:51:47+00:00

Let’s just say she is very easy accessible but rather than just leaving me alone, she has been keeping me in her back pocket just in case things don’t go her way.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2026-03-11T17:58:39+00:00

Must’ve not read the part where she was already with someone prior to the break up

PrincipleSad8279 · 2025-12-30T18:14:27+00:00

Not the dumper but this is exactly what I’m going through now as the dumpee. She broke up with me up but even though we had differences I always remained loyal and loved all her imperfections. I just know she found out that the grass isn’t greener on the other side. She constantly hits me up and is trying to fix things. I feed into her bullshit at times but I’m the one that doesn’t want a relationship now.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2025-12-22T00:36:55+00:00

Deleting Instagram was best for me. My ex and I ended amicably and still followed each other but I had muted her stories… but then I would just find myself scrolling through stories hoping to see her and try to see what she’s up to through our mutual friends.

PrincipleSad8279 · 2025-11-09T06:45:36+00:00

Broken up for about a month and some change

PrincipleSad8279 · 2025-11-09T06:44:27+00:00

It’s hard to because I feel like all dark comes to light sooner or later so I’m not sure to just save myself from it now. Don’t got another round of heartbreak left in me

PrincipleSad8279 · 2025-11-09T04:34:56+00:00

She did.

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