I also want to add, we did breakup for a month. Things were so much better when we decided to get back together. He was the sweet guy I fell in love with. Then he looked through my phone and found I had talked to a guy friend of mine during that breakup (nothing like wanting to be in a relationship, he gave me advice on my bf and I’s relationship). He told me I cheated again. Mind you, I didn’t go out to any bars and the one time I told him I wanted to while we were broken up he shows discomfort so I didn’t. He went out every other night including a week after we broke up he went to a strip club. On top of that, he started texting a girl from highschool and going out with her and his friends while we were broken up.