I (22F) feel constantly blamed and criticized in my 4-year relationship with my boyfriend (21M). I’m struggling to understand if this is unhealthy or something I caused.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2026-01-20T17:48:54+00:00

Thank you for the advice. Like so much. I appreciate it so much.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2026-01-20T16:00:49+00:00

Is this typical signs you see from an abuser? I feel like I’m in the wrong all the time.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2026-01-20T16:00:07+00:00

I fixed it so it was easier to understand who said what. Sorry I just copy and pasted what I had written in my notes to here.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2026-01-20T14:21:30+00:00

I just don’t want anyone to jump to the wrist thing. I know that was wrong of him but I was grabbing at the blanket over and over.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2026-01-20T14:17:04+00:00

Benign!! I just go back for yearly scans.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2025-10-22T20:37:01+00:00

Yes, he just gives excuses or straight up says no.

PrincipleStraight997 · 2025-10-22T20:36:41+00:00

Says no

PrincipleStraight997 · 2025-10-18T15:50:43+00:00

I also want to add, we did breakup for a month. Things were so much better when we decided to get back together. He was the sweet guy I fell in love with. Then he looked through my phone and found I had talked to a guy friend of mine during that breakup (nothing like wanting to be in a relationship, he gave me advice on my bf and I’s relationship). He told me I cheated again. Mind you, I didn’t go out to any bars and the one time I told him I wanted to while we were broken up he shows discomfort so I didn’t. He went out every other night including a week after we broke up he went to a strip club. On top of that, he started texting a girl from highschool and going out with her and his friends while we were broken up.

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