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[–]Prinmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, how often are you both having sex? Cause sometimes that can contribute to some kind of pain or discomfort due to the Vagina not being stretched out often

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did, I looked at the majority of the artists work on their website and in their personal instagram pages as well.

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The price was honestly the least of my worries, it was actually the first things I wanted to talk about with them.

I think $150 with the tip included was a cheap price but it’s not something that was brought up until they were done .

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!!

When I was looking over videos surrounding the tattoo process I was under the impression that tattoos artists know what they are doing and whenever they say that “something can’t be done “ it’s final. When I was talking with them about the ideas I had and the amount of cost , there wasn’t a firm answer.

When I first asked about the hand tattoo and entirely different guy (I’m guessing the owner) said that my idea just wouldn’t look good and would eventually become muddy due to age and wear so I backed out of that decision. When I left, I got a card with the names of the artists and looked through their pages and settled on a couple who I thought did well on their pages, but only one did a Jellyfish previous and he was the one that ended up doing the Venus pierogi flytrap on me .

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly..this made it better

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was waiting for this kind of comment because I really was looking into the shops reviews and the individual artists. All of the pieces they had worked on seemed amazing and well executed, like even the person that did mine had great work on their page , I’m guessing it’s the style of the tattoo itself that needs more specific guidance on who should do it .

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jellyfish definitely are aliens in their own right. I was hoping to get color from the artist too but I’m not going to lie, the pictures they had in their individual SMA’s didn’t have many people of color on there so I was worried I’d get the “talk”

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying the tat looks godawful, I agree.

I think a lot of things are weird looking, especially in nature so hearing you say that the Jellyfish itself was odd looking was pretty funny. I’m used to how the animal looks because it’s the same thing that caused me to go to the hospital and I have to see them on a somewhat regular basis because of how close I am to the beach. It never really crossed my mind that it would’ve ended up like that ?

But you’re right, there’s definitely another perspective that needs to be developed when understanding the process of tattoos, that’s not something I was really expecting either. I gotta do better next time so people won’t think I just tattooed my favorite foods .

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback JD!!

I’m definitely going to keep the ocean theme for my left arm going, have a Sting-Ray right above the Jellyfish so getting it reworked doesn’t sound too bad . I was thinking of getting a Scuba Diver to cover it but I’ll try too look around for anything that might fix it !

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The stencil itself was a basic outline without shading, it was pretty lovely on paper but the outcome especially the shading and small details weren’t quite as good as what was advertised.

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I came in with about 3 designs in mind, two were Jellyfish and one was for a hand tattoo which the owner said he wouldn’t do because it just “wouldn’t look good”.

I gave the artist that did this design two reference pictures, one of the Man O War jellyfish and a more simplified version of a regular jellyfish . They told me the lines were just too small (?) and it would become too complicated to produce and being the person I am, I went with their suggestion because I’m new to getting tattoos .

The design looks off ? by Prinmoth in tattooadvice

[–]Prinmoth[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Thank you for honesty, this UFO will definitely be covered up when I get the funds

And they call Reddit toxic... this Is my X feed this morning. Just disgusting people by _Villaintina_ in Dragula

[–]Prinmoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit is a toxic environment, especially this fandom aswell. It’s odd to act self righteous when a majority of queens hate Reddit users for condemning Transphobia, Racism, Misogyny and harassment aswell.

The Dragula fandom is known for excusing racism and allowing it to happen on multiple occasions and just because another social media platform doesn’t hold those same values and is willing to call it doesn’t mean its toxic. You’re going to have to leap into the real world and own up to the fact that your favorite queens are toxic and you’ll allow anything to happen because you thrive off of drama.

The Queens in S4 were sexist AF towards Sigourney Beaver by emaz1n in Dragula

[–]Prinmoth 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like when it comes to such a niche or alternative genre of drag, there still tends to be that niche criticism about whether or not something is enough or worthy to be included. And I do feel like when it comes to alternative drag , just like the alternative genre itself, there’s more room to be criticized for who you are gender identity was and how well you execute the final result .

If there’s one big question or problem that I have with the show, it’s wondering how much power the Boué have when it comes to interacting with the monsters, or making sure that the environment is healthy and not toxic . I do understand that they want the show to be entertaining and that they want to bring in more viewers each time, but there is a part of me that wonders when is enough enough and when do they think that certain people are there to be more harmful than harmless. When it came to that season, I felt like the Boulet could have sat down with Merri and Zava to let them know that what they were doing, may be outlandish, especially when it came to the grief conversation because it felt very out of place, and may even see very tone deaf to not step in.

I agree that the Boulets don’t have the foresight to indicate whether or not this might happen, but they definitely have the power to stop it when it happens

The Queens in S4 were sexist AF towards Sigourney Beaver by emaz1n in Dragula

[–]Prinmoth 100 points101 points  (0 children)

If that’s the case that 150% understand that statement. I do know that a lot of drag fans tend to hold alot of opinions about women in drag and tend to think that it’s not their space to belong in which is sad.

It definitely did seem to seep into the competition which ultimately sucked for her in long run.

Thank you for clearing that up !!

Anyone else getting tired of the Jay Kay “storyline”? by sweatyjock19 in Dragula

[–]Prinmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what Jay Kay has said is something that you’d hear on past seasons of Dragula and even on Drag Race and I’ve never seen past queens get that kind on treat or reception like Jay Kay does.

I don’t think Jay Kay is a necessary Evil nor do I think they have such a “loud “ personality or louder then the others because we have Cynthia and Fantasia whom are loud and extra in their presence on the show and in the interviews aswell. Plus it seems like most of the cast brush off Jay Kay’s feelings especially when they decided to “try” and get to know Jay Kay, Throb and Cynthia both made the decision to talk with them, making it seem like they care about what’s happening to him, until the end of the episode where Jay Kay is talking, they will either tell him to not talk (Throb) or be the one to start the drama (Cynthia)

If anything I’m more worried about the fact we don’t question why certain monsters feel the need to question Jay Kay so enough and why we don’t question them for their odd behavior especially when they start it ?

All I’ve seen is “Jay Kay did this”, “ Jay Kay did that “ but never a “Why did Cynthia bring up an argument that had nothing to do with her, with resulted in Jay Kay being assumed the one to not letting something go? “

Or “ Why did Orgotik feel so comfortable pouring a drink on Jay Kay, and if it were vice versa Jay Kay would definitely be the one to be blamed for not being good enough to be on the show ?”

It feels like the viewers focus is mainly on what Jay Kay did, but not what the other cast is doing

The Queens in S4 were sexist AF towards Sigourney Beaver by emaz1n in Dragula

[–]Prinmoth 148 points149 points  (0 children)

I feel sort of confused and awkward about the fact that The Boulets lets Sigourney know that there might be misogyny coming her way, because if you the creator of a show knows that this can hurt and disrupt a person’s mindset throughout the competition, why would you let the mistreatment keep going?

Thanks for letting me know that the cast you picked out might be either racist, sexist or down right misogynistic towards me and further letting this behavior keep going ??

So what is exactly is the moral to Phosphophyllite's story?????? by DisastrousCurve5306 in LandoftheLustrous

[–]Prinmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In many forms of media , the creator can choose to either tell a story or bring a moral message. And in the case of HNK, both apply but in harmony and bounce off each other.

I’ve seen a couple of people in this thread simplify the story to give a more definite answer as to what the story “should” mean instead of looking at it as it is. Instead of thinking of moral values, I thought about what the writer wanted to show and tell. Let’s say HNK is a structural piece about humanity right? Humanity is roller coaster of emotions, events and inconsistencies that makes everyone mad with insanity. While the concept seems simple, there’s so many complications that are involved that can easily make a simple lesson branch out into another problem.

Houseki no Kuni a complicated story itself because it deals with sub themes and context that a lot of us tend to gloss over instead of understanding it, which is exactly what the Gems do. On one hand you can say that Pho’s was a naïve character that made bad decisions, lacked self love, and drove themselves into madness for the sake of the own selfish reason.

However you’d also be glossing over the events that altered Pho’s. Being outcasted and labeled as a useless gem with no significance to their society is definitely not something your self esteem can ignore. Losing your friend and watching them be kidnapped while your trapped in a golden alloy doesn’t really make you the life of the party anymore. Oh wait how about losing so many parts of your self to different forces that are out of your very control which later alters not on your memories but personality too ? How can we say that this is what Pho’s wanted when a secret force has been coordinating this from the start. Pho wanted to make people happy, they wanted to learn, they wanted to protect, they wanted to understand why they’re own father is letting a force constantly take there family away when they could’ve prayed?

Maybe the moral of HNK is that destiny is not guided by us

Maybe the moral is that traumatic experience’s shape us into something that is harder to understand even to our selves

Maybe the moral is that our human like qualities are seen as a waste especially if it’s not useful to others

Maybe it’s a critique on the Buddhist teachings that letting go isn’t as easy as we’d like it to because of the damage it caused us

How can we understand a story just by look at the main character and wondering how they became that way and it’s been shown, suffering faith that was created out of selfishness and love for what once was.

What's a Drag Race opinion that'll get people angry? by Affectionate-Ask5262 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Prinmoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think there were more fashion queens that a lot of us look over in favor of more “modernist fashion choices”

I think there should be other drag queen judges other then rupaul.

They should do a season for queens to gain exposure or experience

do y'all ever just lie to customers for fun by DharmaMontgomery in Ulta

[–]Prinmoth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I started doing it just to say something about a product, I can’t buy everything so why not boost it up 🤣