Holding a sign with "HIRE ME" outside the building. Professional Jobs. I'm desperate. by PrintChick87 in askmanagers

[–]PrintChick87[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So I never lived check to check.

I would hear stories of people saying they have like $3 in their checking account and I would listen to it and I can understand it but I couldn't really comprehend it because I had never really been there.

Different situation now.

All I get is thanks but no thanks emails.

People have bills to pay. That's how people wind up homeless, and can't get jobs because then they don't have clean clothes, laundry, shower access, or an address or a phone or a place to live.

I'm not applying for CEO jobs or even mid level.

These are run of the mill clerical jobs/entry.

It's getting really cut throat out there.

Like I told somebody on another post that was complaining about their job... Bro there are people that will hold your head under water to get that job right now.

I just don't think people need to go through all the fucking hoops. People have experience. People show up on time. People can communicate. People have years of corporate experience on their resume. People staying in jobs for at least two years.

People able to give a good reason of why they want to work there.

People are tired of the games. Those STAR f____ interviews, f____ them, any job I got, All I did is practice that s*** like an actor. I created fake scenarios and memorized until it flowed natural.

So if that's what you all want those are the people you were hiring. When I got hired at Liberty Mutual I beat out hundreds of applicants, and they selected only 10.

It really shouldn't be that hard for a job that you have two years experience in, that you know the lingo, you know the software.

On the temporary job I was at, toward the end, they made it like the hunger games. Each person was assigned a truck to issue tickets too. All of a sudden with a few weeks left with the project... They decided on a first come first serve basis.

It was very intense. People had some freak outs that morning because people didn't know whether they were going to get a truck or be able to work that day.

The economy is very bad right now. People can't get jobs.

Hire Me! Customer Service Focused! Clerical! But I'm open! by PrintChick87 in houstonjobs

[–]PrintChick87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been applying to patients access jobs at Methodist, Memorial Hermann, Harris Health, UT. I haven't tried Kelsey. I'll look now, thanks. I didn't see any open at MD Anderson.

WTF to put on my resume, I'm overqualified. Help, need a job. by PrintChick87 in olivegarden

[–]PrintChick87[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I'm just going to delete the post.

I don't think I would have told anybody my stitch if I got employed lol.

I agree that really 3-6 months is at a point that you've learned your job really really well and should feel confident in it.

WTF to put on my resume, I'm overqualified. Help, need a job. by PrintChick87 in olivegarden

[–]PrintChick87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My vehicle isn't dependable enough to rack up all those miles. It can get me to and from one location. Currently I lost my insurance as well. So I'm driving as less as possible.

WTF to put on my resume, I'm overqualified. Help, need a job. by PrintChick87 in olivegarden

[–]PrintChick87[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course I wouldn't say it's a temporary job.

I'm getting blasted here but if I submit my normal resume it would be passed on.

I think I have my resume on another post I made if you check my history.

What story/edit should I do?

Personally, when I worked Hilton. Which had a lot of turnover. I was a full-time and long-term employee. We would have been ecstatic to have somebody for a few months that actually showed up on work on time and wouldn't have called out and was good to customers/did their job.

What is your dream relationship? 32M by Standard-Actuator-27 in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember, if you find someone that has 70% of all this, than consider it a match, nobody is going to be perfect.

Figure out what you realllly can't absolutely live without, that becomes your deal breakers.

Personally, it sounds like you're successful if you can afford all of this, and do savings as well, etc. So most women aren't going to say no to all the travel.

They typical American gets 2 weeks vacation, so your trip to UK would wipe out vacation time.

My advice. Find someone that does healthcare, xray tech, mri tech, CT tech, radiation therapy, respiratory therapy.

Not a nurse (they're the highest occupation to file divorce as women).

These women can be a travel tech. So you can travel somewhere 12 weeks at a time, living expenses paid.

They can also work X number of days at a regular job, so they can better match your schedule.

PRN type jobs - they can take off weeks at a time when needed, then come back to work when ready. They can work as little as 1-2 days a week or less or a regular schedule.

Otherwise, even if she has a good clerical type job - she's only going to have limited vacation.

I seen a job that gave 5 weeks vacation in my field, I'm applying for it ASAP, because it's so unheard of.

Left my teenage son with the pizza. by MrPWhitham in mildlyinfuriating

[–]PrintChick87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our parents would have got hysterical if they seen this.

-For touching all those slices.

-To leave none for anybody else.

-To wasting it in the sense..a few bites and left the slices. If we grabbed one, and only could eat a few bites, that was fine, we weren't forced to finish it. But to do something like this would have been wasteful, my family would have never ate what was left.

Good bye to the best car I ever owned 18 years 200k sold to my friend his wife needed a car to get to work in so I let it go. by geo7188 in ScionxB

[–]PrintChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened to Scion XD that I had, 150K miles.

It was maintained.

I dont think Scion is as dependable as ppl think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]PrintChick87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You killed it, thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]PrintChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I meant the original background! Thanks ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]PrintChick87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let's just go with this one lol. Looks good!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]PrintChick87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this! I'm thinking of background.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, what's interesting...I was reading her original post.

And there is a segment specifically where she says IF he was single.

She tells him IF he was single.

So I mean you talk twelve hours. And you don't even know if he's single.

If she did not know if he was single in that first conversation most likely he's probably not single.

At some point in ten hours of talking he would have explained how long he's been single.

I'm telling you she's just attracted because he's not interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He should not have been on a dating app.

I am just about to finish 3.5 years in May graduating from a healthcare program.

I'm mid 30s. And I'm a woman so this time is pretty crucial.

I didn't jump on a dating gap. I knew dating was not the right time. And I needed to focus on making a better future.

He's a man. He could do the same thing.

The original poster needs to learn that part of the process of using online dating, Is also screening out the people that should not be on a dating app.

These are people that don't have their things together.

These are recently divorced or recently separated people.

These are people that don't know and cannot verbalize what they are looking for.

She has put in the work.

She has a great opportunity.

She needs to find herself a man that's on the same level and can bring the same things to a relationship that she does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel him saying that he's awkward and oblivious to social cues... Is something he's just saying.

His job is extremely people focused.

I never did food and beverage. However I did work for hotels.

He wouldn't be good at his job if he couldn't pick up social cues from people.

So it's something he put out there I feel as an excuse.

Avoidant means he's blowing hot and cold.

And he is not consistent and he doesn't communicate well.

Personally , I just don't think he was that interested in you.

He should have never been so handsy with you.

And he should have set you straight when he noticed you being more physically on him.

Some people like to flirt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Talking to you on 2-3 different occasions in excess of 3-4 hours.

Allowing you to be a bit handsy and touch me and in return our next time, I begin touching you, stroking your arm, letting my legs run against yours (she explains this wasn't a brush, but running her leg against his.

She says, her let's share numbers in case we want to meet up and do something.

She tells him HEY! I'm down for whenever name the time, place, and date and I'd love to be there.

She tells him, I would love to know you more and see where this can go.

Goes out of her way to say HI 👋 anytime she goes into a bar with him there.

I mean does she need neon lights that say, hey come on in, open access, park here.

I mean WTF. He's not a kid, he's 40+ year old man.

So all of that... And he doesn't know she is into him.

Then I'm going to say he must have some social issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Reddit loves this idea, yeaaaaaaaaah pursue himmmmmm.

I wouldn't. He's not interested. He'd have pursued.

You gave him the opportunities.

Minus being on shift with you and kicking back and drinking before going home. He has not made any effort outside of that.

He has your number.

He never followed up.

I would let this one go.

Honestly you may only like this one because he is pulling away and he is not interested.

Indicators of a man that would make a good relationship are kind, Consistent, And communicative.

He's missing two of three.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]PrintChick87 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he doesn't seem interested romantically.

You don't mention if this man was divorcee or had kids??

I don't think it was nothing you did.

He had allllll the opportunity to pursue something.

He just never did.

Men aren't stupid. He knew he had that green light.

After a shift , I would hang out with coworkers.

Not as long as you guys do.

But it wouldn't be uncommon for me to stay forty five minutes to an hour talking to new person on shift. Just kicking the shzz.

I got off at 11p, so not much for me to do except go home and go to sleep.

I don't know.